that I have done over many years. i have backslidden and have lived a life of bondage and have yielded to temptation. Most of my life is behind me and judgement is coming nearer and I dont feel as though I have done anything for Him. I am scared of eternity in Hell. What can i do?
2007-06-12 18:32:01 · 33 answers · asked by jay or 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
God will meet you where you are. All you have to do is ask for forgiveness (sincerely) and the slate is wiped clean. Yes, it's that easy. God can forgive you for all your wrongdoings. The question is ... can YOU forgive you?
2007-06-12 18:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My guess is that you're about 17? You do not have kids yet, you are not married, you do not have excessive bills, debt or mortgage... am I correct? There are lots of ways to get your education back on track, depending on your financial status. My assumption is that you're still graduating/already graduated from high school? If so, then even with bad grades you can still get into a college. Do not be afraid of applying to a community college, the education you get there sometimes is better then from expensive pro-profit schools. Just because you did poorly in high school, doesn't mean that you can't work your way up to good grades in college and get a degree. Once you've completed an associate degree, transfer into a four year college. If you have financial problems, there are many options available to you. Make sure you always apply for financial aid -- who knows, you may qualify. It's hard to tell what exactly is wrong in your life from your post, but ending your life is not an answer. I've felt depressed a lot in 2011, and I always tell myself that tomorrow might be better. Sure, it might be worse, but unless I stick around, I won't know. Besides, what's the worst that can happen with just sticking around and see how life turns out? In the end... the end will come on its own, why not see if you actually end up having a fantastic life?
2016-05-18 23:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can put this right, all you have to do is read the bible and put it into practise and God will not be doing the judging at Armageddon Jesus will. the reason for this is because he lived as a man, went through all the troubles that we go through and he passed the test, so he will judge us on what he could do, if can avoid temptation so can we, Jehovah is a kind, long suffering, loving and just God. I have made him my best friend and he knows the rotten sinful things I have done in my life and he has forgiven me, providing I don't repeat those mistakes I will, hopefully, go through Armageddon and enjoy a new system with disease and death, what a wonderful prospect that is and all he asks us in return for this is out devotion and our love and that we tell others about him. Don't be afraid of him, he's sad that you are sad and he hold out his hand please please take it, give him a chance. I have Been studying the bible for 20 years and its the most wonderful book you can ever read, he wrote it so that we could keep our lives straight.Jesus died to buy back our eternal life that Adam lost for us, don't let all his suffering be in vain
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2007-06-15 11:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by gloriashealth@btinternet.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, first of all! Does God say anywhere in the Bible that you have no hope of reconciliation? You know what to do. You simply have to repent, which is more than saying sorry, it's turning from your old behaviour and starting again. You have already done the hard part in recognising that you need to repent, think how many people never reach that point. And Jesus doesn't ask you to do anything for him, this is a faith of grace, what counts is what Jesus has already done for you. Say the prayer, listen to God, and find a spirit-led church to support you and help you as you continue on your journey.
2007-06-13 01:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And here we have the problem with religion.
They all claim to oppose evil, but what can be more evil than instilling this type of fear and worry in someone?
All religion is about control, and the main mechanism they use to achieve this control is guilt, real or imagined. First, they convince you that you are guilty of the things they define as "sins". Then they tell you that only by becoming a member of their religion and following their rules can you be forgiven for these "sins". Once you've fallen for these two basic lies, you've had it, they control your life. They tell you what's "good" and what's "bad" and what's allowed and not allowed.
Most religions are actually quite evil in this respect and this question gives a fairly clear demonstration of that. How can any organisation that uses the fear of retribution as a recruiting tool be considered as a good thing?
2007-06-12 21:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to discuss that with your god and I do not envy you your chances, given that most of the god fearing individuals that I have come across have not exactly been very forgiving. Lets hope they are not a pale reflection of the master.
As an atheist I have spent my life in debauchery,cruel vindictive torture and coveting my neighbours a*s in the absolute knowledge that the only judgment which will be foisted on me when I shuffle off this mortal coil will be my descendants weighing up whether it is worth the cost of burying me, or going for the burn.
None of this helps you and as I cannot give you a definative answer on the chances of an afterlife I can probably make the assertion that none of the paedophile priests who have been uncovered worry about the afterlife, because they know that all they have top do is confess their sins, take the pennance and heaven waits! So whats your problem.
2007-06-12 19:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just repent to God and ask Him to help you not to do the things that trip you up. Change some things in your life, change some friends, who are bad news for you . You don't need nobody's approval but God's. Ask God to fill you with the Holy Spirit and read your bible every day, speak the Word out loud every time you think about it. The more you fill your spirit with the Word ,the smaller the power of the flesh becomes.
When you get up in the morning , go to Ephesians 6th chapter and put on the whole armour of God to protect you all day from the attacks of the enemy. The devil wants to keep you in bondage and the only way out is the Word of God.
God bless you
2007-06-12 18:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Glad you asked this question. Let me help in some way......What is happening to you sounds like what is happening to me and the entire world. Yes, we all sin and come short of the glory. We all do stupid things. The thing is is that you are searching your soul and you are concerned. The thing I suggest is that you give your life to God and accept His salvation. Just give your life and heart to Him and tell Him you need forgiveness. He will do the rest.
You think you have a bad life right now and think your sins are worse than everyone else's. It's actually the devil putting fear into your heart and mind. Just cast him out and leave it up to God.
I hope this helps. Email if you need more help.
2007-06-12 22:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by thiajms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus washes away all your sins, past and present with three little words...Father Forgive Me. Just ask Jesus to come into your life and clean it up. He will do it if you ask. He knows your heart, so the power is not just in the words, but in the cry of your heart. He wants NO ONE to go to hell. That's why he made it so easy. See, we ALL have sinned and continue to sin even when we don't want to. But He forgives us and helps us start again fresh every day. That was the miracle of the cross! Just remember, to be saved...ALL YOU MUST DO IS ..
1. Believe in your heart that Jesus is the son of God, died and rose again, and sits in heaven today.
2. Confess with your mouth that Jesus is your savior and ask Him to forgive your sins.
That's It! There is now no condemnation for you for anything you do. You are not going to hell. You are a child of the kingdom of heaven and your name is added to the book of life. You didn't and can never earn it. It's free! So just thank him for the gift of salvation.He's your father.And if Satan tries to remind you of your past, just remind him of his future!
2007-06-12 18:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by moose on the loose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read 1 JOHN 1:9...and believe it.
There is absolutely no limit to God's forgiveness.
You need not fear meeting Him as Judge when you can also meet Him as Saviour and as Counsel for the defence.
You are not under law but under GRACE
2007-06-12 20:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by alan h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem smart enough to know what is wrong and right by recognizing your weaknesses and shortcomings for sure you do not need anyone telling you how to be a good person. Anyway be happy because Jesus Christ came on Earth to save sinners like you and me so for sure whatever it is you are asking will be heard because He is out looking for you.
2007-06-13 17:38:50 · answer #11 · answered by fartymann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋