My mom and step dad are getting a divorce and My step dad is staying in our current town and me my mom and my sister are moving down were our extended family lives. My problem is, is that my aunt wants me to live with her, my mom wants me to live with her, my step dad wants me to live with him and my real dad in california wants me to stay with him. The problem with me staying with my real dad is that he is into drugs and altho he says hes clean I don't know if I can trust him. My step dad and I don't get along really well but I know he loves me very much because hes been my father figure since I was 2. My mom and I don't get along real well but I love her to death. I get along with my aunt REALLY well. Thats why I want to stay with her. I'm afraid my dad will be really mad at me if I do that because he doesn't like my aunt. I don't know who to choose. What should I do! please tell me! I'm so excited to move but this lil thing is holding me back so much!
Thanks for all your answers.
2007-06-12 18:05:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I've already discussed this with all of my parents and my mom just yells at me when I talk to her about it. Or she says that I'm going to start thinking my aunt is my mom and I will want my real mom out of my life. WHICH ISN'T TRUE! I told her that too. I don't know what to do. I feel so bad where ever I go. . . :(
2007-06-12 18:16:34 · update #1
Stay with your mother and visit the others often.
2007-06-12 18:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really want to stay with your aunt, so I think that's what you should do. I loved all of my aunts when I was younger, and I would have loved to live with one of them! If your dad gets mad about it, that's his problem. He's an adult, and he can choose to have a temper tantrum if he wants to. I think it's smart of you to have a long-distance relationship with him since he's struggled with drug addiction. I think you know that just because he says he's clean doesn't mean he is. Move in with your aunt and don't feel guilty.
2007-06-13 01:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what is best for you and your future.Staying with your dad who is on drugs is definitely not the best option,Stay with your aunt and visit your parents during the weekends and holidays.Your mum brought you into the world andtherfore you need to maintain a relationship with her.Sometimes you get on better if you dont live with them.,
2007-06-13 01:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I suggest you sit down with Mom and tell her all this..... I would not suggest living with step-dad, until maybe older, and as for Dad, maybe he does want to see you and make up for lost time...... for Dad I would suggest a 2 0r 3 wk summer visit to test the waters so to speak...... as for living with Aunt ? that is something I realy think you need to discuse with mom.....God bless
2007-06-13 01:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tuff one,who can u trust with ur life and know theyll b ther no matter wat.and if thats all of them just think who u want 2 spend ur time with if need b 24/7 ther the one 2 b with and dont worry about feelings getting hurt because they wil heal eventully:)
2007-06-13 19:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by 95 GSX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question, go where your are most save. but dont just leave other because you dont get along with them. I bet you girl that when mom or dad is really gone youre going to wish you'd been with them. But as for now, go to your aunty and when youre really, leave it to faith. Tk.
2007-06-13 01:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by _m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best would be your aunt. it might hurt everone, but it sounds like the best option for you.
2007-06-13 01:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋