each time i go out with someone,,i meet another guy who i end up likeing at the same time. right now i have a bf and I love him I really do but when I go to the lake[[summer hangout spot <33]] I always meet this one guy that I like and I can tell that he likes me. I dont want to avoid him,,just advert my eyes to my prize if ya know what i mean. wat should i do??
im 13
2007-06-12 17:26:33 · 14 answers · asked by just_like_you132 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should grow up.
2007-06-12 17:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by mrjts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you can see, you are too young to tie yourself to one person. You want EVERYONE! and that's normal. Crushes are more likely than love at your age. Your confusion is being caused by raging hormones that your brain can't keep up with, again, normal for your age. Just be friends with guys, don't get involved emotionally. You have your whole life ahead of you. Take it easy and take it slow. One day you'll find love for real and look back on this part of your life and better understand what I am saying. For now, take my word for it, you're too young. Develop long-time friendships instead of short-term crush-affairs that you are too young to develop into anything meaningful.
2007-06-13 00:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by gma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 13 you are too young to be worrying about dating in the first place, at least going out with just one person. It is ok to be friends with guys, but going "Steady" is not a good idea.
2007-06-13 00:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13?
You don't know who you like....its all confusing...guys can minipulate. On the other hand, stop letting yourself get lovey dovey when you know you like someone else. Don't get so mushy; stand up for yourself once in a while. Don't let men own you; that's like, worse than being a stripper.
2007-06-13 00:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by Me Being Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy you meet at the lake that you have a loving boyfriend at home and you don't want to mess it up or invite your boyfriend to come with. that's what i did when i went down to lake of the ozarks one year.
2007-06-13 00:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by dinojr_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready to commit so don't. Thirteen is too young to know what you want in life and way to young to be with one guy. Why in such a hurry to grow up?
2007-06-13 00:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13 so first i doubt your really in love....and youre pretty young for a boyfriend....you should just tell him that you want to see other guys as well...and that he can see other girls too. have fun on your summer vaca
2007-06-13 00:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 too
go out wit me!!
lol jk jk
but ya;;
umm go out wit who ever u like most
no one can tell u who to go out wit
its up to u and ur heart
2007-06-13 00:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest that you can both see other people as you are a bit young to commit.
2007-06-13 00:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_angel92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not growing up so fast and enjoy your childhood. You'll have plenty of time for boyfriends when your grown up.
2007-06-13 00:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by ark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really liked your bf then you wouldnt like other guys
2007-06-13 00:30:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋