I am 7 month's pregnant and was wondering if it is normal for me to feel unattrative? Also is it normal for me to feel that my siginificant other isn't attracted to me?
2007-06-12 17:13:40 · 9 answers · asked by kaminskichristine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is normal... but try not to feel this way... a woman has a certain glow about her when she is with child. I used to try and find the cutest maternity outfits to wear and always keep my hair and nails done... I just tried to do things that didn't make me feel this way. Also, try talking to your significant other... ask him if he finds you unattractive during your pregnancy. Cheer up sweetie... I am sure you are as cute as a button right now.
2007-06-12 17:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. Maybe book yourself a massage or facial - a lot of the beauty therapists to have treatments for pregnant woman - so whatever product is being used, it won't harm your baby. You probably feel your significant other isn't attracted to you because you don't feel attractive to yourself - he might also be 'freaking' out because of the way you are feeling and not quite sure how to handle it.
2007-06-13 00:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it can be normal, cause you do gain weight when pregnant, some more than others, and lots of women feel less attractive when this happens and may feel like how could their partners want them with extra weight on, but if someone loves you, then they won't care if you gain weight or have a few stretch marks and so forth.
2007-06-13 00:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Its a terrible feeling. Thats why you need support from your significant other. He is supposed to re-assure you and tell you how beautiful you are. Dont know what kind of music you listen to but it doesnt matter, you'll enjoy this song by Jamie Foxx "Still Got It".. in the song he is trying to explain to the girl that her pregnancy is so beautiful and still does it for him. See if you can hear that song, I think it might make you feel better.
2007-06-13 00:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by frankee_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course it is --- my ex wife (i hasten to add after 30 years so the kids are all grown and left home) --- felt that in all 3 of her pregnancies and she was totally wrong -- i loved her even more --- best wishes
2007-06-13 00:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, because your body is going through changes. Im sure your hubby still loves you and what not.
2007-06-13 00:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by LessNes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you r still attractive! you have 2 believe in yourself and rmb dat beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder =)
anyway
i would think that your spouse would still think you r attractive =)
2007-06-13 00:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by annaliese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am sure you would because you have access weight but you are just a pregnent woman and i am sure you spouse is still atracted to you
2007-06-13 00:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by court 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to dress sexy ,dress hip and young, it normal for women to feel that way
2007-06-13 00:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by sexymama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋