HELP PLEASE
2007-06-12 17:07:32 · 23 answers · asked by Donne G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A cheater is low. A cheater who will do that with your "friend" is the lowest of the low. Dump your boyfriend and your friend. Believe me dogs like that don't change, they just become better at hiding it. Make new friends, ones with some class which those two lack. Move on, you will stop hurting soon and be so much better off. Good luck.
2007-06-12 17:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First off, dump the dirt bag. Second, dump the lame excuse for a friend. No excuses! Neither deserve to have you in their life and why bother getting stressed out. You learned a valuable lesson here, don't always trust guys and never trust your friends with them! I wouldn't even make a big huff about it to him, honestly, it seems your friend is the worst here. There should be no room in your life for cheaters or backstabbers. You need true friends, because they would never do that to you. Remember, you deserve better! Do not beat yourself up over it, it's not worth your time, tears, or headaches!
2007-06-13 00:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by L-O-L-O-L-O-L-O-V-E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave them both alone. They would both do it to you again. Harder to do it but thats the only way you'll be ok. Let time heal the hurt, but you definitely have to move on. And just know that they wont work out either because theyre both cut from the same back-stabbing cloth, so they'll most likely cheat on each other too.
2007-06-13 00:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by frankee_77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SLAP THAT B*TCH DAMMIT!
AND KICK HIS PRIVATES.
No really, dont do that, be a ***** back, show them that your not to be toyed with, that you wont take this ****. Act if nothing has happend, be sweeter than usual, be extra nice, make him feel bad, make her feel bad.
Then plan on revenge! Do not rush it, prepare for months if you must!
Believe me it'll be so fun!
OH and one more thing, dont get all emotional and stupid, and if you already have just forget about waht you cried over, you wont let him get to you! Your the only one that makes you cry so dont let him convince you to!
Laugh about it, dont get upset because your friend betrayed you, there are plently more fish in the see, and you know waht benifit this has? time you would've wasted with him has diminished! Your single again and can flirt with randoms!
2007-06-13 00:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica_Rabbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him....it may b tough 2 move on but thats the right thing 2 do, do whats best 4 u
2007-06-13 00:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Tstriz20 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wish your boy friend and your friend the best of luck, and never talk to them again. They both disrespected you and you now have to turn your back on them. What they both did was wrong and there is no way they can justify it.
2007-06-13 00:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by CRAIG C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I probably would not handle this very well... if that happened to me I'd dump him, you know... do some black mailing... flirt with all his friends. For my friend... I'd walk up to her and give her a black eye... tell every one what she did adding my own details to make every one feel bad for me and hate her. But I'm not telling you to do this. I just needed to tell someone what I'd do!
2007-06-13 00:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them both!! i was in the same situation. my ex cheated on me with my best friend. dont think that ur friendship is gonna last or ur relationship. get out of there
good luck
2007-06-13 00:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by just_like_you132 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, quick! Sounds like a real jerk and the fact that he messes with your friend.
2007-06-13 00:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wish them all the best then laugh publuicly at them when it all blows up in their faces, obviously niether of them have any loyalty and 2 nonloyals in one relationship is likea recipe for destruction
2007-06-13 00:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by whipsaplenty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋