Just curious =)
Cheers!
2007-06-12 16:48:34 · 20 answers · asked by ~*Meg*~ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
AARIKA: That's so sweet =)
2007-06-12 16:52:38 · update #1
Awww, you guys!! You're gonna make me cry =)
2007-06-12 16:54:59 · update #2
I loooooove my lil snookums. My son makes me sooo happy that I let out a little schoolgirl giggle every time I think about him. I also believe that if he was meant to be my baby, then he will be. So I used to wish that we could've had him a little later in life. I mean, I was 21 when I got pregnant and it left me to miss out on a lot of things. My hubby and I was also going through a rough patch and I'm still not sure whether or not he stayed with me out of feelings of responsibility and obligations or because he truly wanted to salvage our relationship. I would also have liked to have him born to a life with more financial security, where our careers would've been established.
Now though, I think that my son was the sole motivation for me transitioning into a better person. I worked hard through school and will continue to work on my graduates' degree all for the purpose of bettering my son's life. He helped open my eyes to what I can attain if only I try. So hell NO! I would NOT delay him coming into this earth even for a second.
2007-06-12 17:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by S K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 33 when I gave birth to my son. Now at 35 we have been trying unsuccessfully for number 2 for over a year. So I just wish we had of started either trying for this one straight away, or we should have tried for the first one maybe a year or two earlier.
I know how wonderful children are and so we know what we are missing out on by maybe not being able to have another one. It breaks my heart because my boy would be such a cool brother to someone.
2007-06-13 00:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I wish I was older when I had them, but most of the time, I am thankful for having them when I did. I will be in my early 40s when both of them are in college and out of the house. I would still have half of my life left to enjoy. I will be young enough to enjoy my grandchildren.
But I was 21 when I had my first child. Sometimes I think "I knew nothing back then, what was I doing having a baby?" But I gained strength and knowledge from her and I am a much wiser and stronger person because of her.
Change anything, no. Not a chance. I love my kids.
2007-06-12 23:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nymph 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was in my 30's when I had my children. I think I was too immature before to have been a good parent. In my 20's I just wanted to go out and have fun, travel, etc.
While I still like to do those things, I felt I was more ready in my 30's to be a parent.
I wouldn't change a thing--my two kids were the best things that ever happened to me
2007-06-13 00:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by ezrunnerp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We waited until I was 33 and my wife was 27. We have a 2 year old. I have friends my age with teenagers. I couldn't imagine what my life would be like if I had a kid when I was 17-18 years old. I am glad to be a parent and I am glad that I had a chance to grow up and learn who I was before I start raising someone else.
Children need adult parents raising them not other children.
2007-06-13 00:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by randytyner 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing. Change nothing. Those kids are my entire world. Life. Happiness. Sadness. Hope. Laughs. Serious. Love 'em! And I would love to have more! Too many kids does not exist, at least not in my world. I come from a large family and I have 4 myself. I LOVE MY KIDS!!!!!!
2007-06-13 00:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Made You Look 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell pregnant when I was 18 and I decided to keep the baby. I was so lucky that I had the full support of my family and of the babies father. But looking back, as much as i love my son, I wish I had of waited till I was older just so I enjoyed being young. But other than that I love being a mum. Hard work tears and lots of love....
2007-06-12 23:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt delay it or avoid it i love being a mom. The only thing id change is who my childs dad was. When i got pregnant i wish shed been someone else besides his.
2007-06-12 23:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had my daughter when i was 22 and just out of college.....her father was no help and had nothing to do with me or her and to this day...has never seen her and has nothing to do with her except to pay child support....so i guess i would want to wait and have childern with someone who loves us both....but i have found that now with my soon to be husband and he loves us both more than anything....so it all worked out in the long run......because i dont think i would have met the love of my life if i didnt have my daughter.....
2007-06-13 00:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not change anything. I didn't want kids before I got married. We had our first when I was 35 and she was 28. Worked for us. Our 2nd kid came along when I was 39.
2007-06-12 23:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by subsailor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋