I noticed that guys like it when girls play hard to get...
is this true?
i've been observing actions of others lately (guys) and its funny, when i like a guy i pay way too much attension to him and they dont end up liking me.
But when i dont pay attension to them (to the guys i DONT like) they crave attension off me and becomer really clingly
so i've learnt from my mistakes hehe...
before i was paying attension to antoher guy and he was like go away i dont like you, but lately i've been playing REALLY hard to get and distant and hes been giving more attension to me...this is soo funny!
So guys tell me the 411!
2007-06-12 15:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica_Rabbit 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you play hard to get, it makes them more aware and they feel like their is someone else your going out with. So it's kinda a little jealousy motivation if you will. I might not be right but that's my 2 cents.
2007-06-12 15:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by D-Unit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like attention from girls, but like being smotheree. They will run from you if you smother them. Personally, if a girl played hard to get, I would move on. There are more girls in the world that I don't have to work so hard for. Honesty is always best.
2007-06-12 22:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but when I was dating that was my MO. I never left the door wide open but cracked with that chain on it =)
Men want to feel like the alpha male, they want to do the work so they can say later...I got you" not you got him" it's a testosterone thing go with it. When women move in too soon their slut but when men move in their player. Let them have their title we know who the queen bee is once the trap is set. Enjoy the game only if it's worth it.
2007-06-12 22:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dutchess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many whores out there today, guys like a challenge. It's refreshing, and in their nature to want what they can't have. Like, if Adriana Lima slept with every guy she met, guys wouldn't find her as attractive. Since they can't have her, they look up to her as a goddess. :]]
2007-06-12 22:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea playing hard to get is cool, it makes it seem like your not a slut, but make sure you dont play too hard to get or they will become uninterested.
2007-06-12 22:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋