to the running away point
2007-06-12 15:18:13 · 13 answers · asked by ILHN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
please dont run away.. i need you. you're everything i've got. i couldnt live without you. you're my best friend. if u seriously are gunna run away come to my pad ill chill with u. my mom wouldnt let me go anyways and besides id be crazy tired. we'll through our own party<333
2007-06-12 15:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're talking like you're 18, but you're not. You're only 13. I'm 15, only two years older, and i'm glad that my parents didn't let me start dating or having boyfriends until now. I'm far more mature than I was when I was 13. Everybody is anxious to get going in life, but starting too early can leave you with permanent scars.
I know a girl who's 19 and she isn't allowed to talk to boys AT ALL, and she isn't allowed to get her own apartment, live on her own, or even go to the beauty school she dreams of attending. So basically, she is only allowed to leave the house when she gets married *coughcoughbadideacoughcough*.
My point for telling you that is, you don't have it bad. Since your name is "ben" i'm going to assume that you're a guy. You're a kid still, you should just live by your parents' rules. Things will lighten up when you hit 16. Fact, that's why a lot of parents don't let their kids do anythign before then.. so 16 will actually be "sweet", not just one of those birthdays where you're like "hah... my numbers changed but i don't feel no different."
Just hold on. It'll all get better soon. Don't run away, it's a bad idea. You won't have any money, nobody will hire a 13-year-old without calling child security to try and get you back home. Running away isn't the answer. I hope this helped.
2007-06-12 22:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Every girl around your age feels the same way. Your parents are only doing good parenting. But you should talk to them, and let them know how desperate you are to the point of even thinking of running away.
When you talk to them sensibly, they will compromise. They were your age at one time too. So be respectful, and show them by your actions that you can be responsible. All will work out. DON'T RUN AWAY, just think where will you go, and how long do you think you will survive, before you get raped, and killed. I am sure you hear all the horror stories of girls older than you that end up that way. Good luck to you dearie, life will get better. Just wait and see.
2007-06-12 22:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know your parent is just very protective of you because you are still very young. It's not that they are treating you like a two yr. old but just ignore them & just do the right thing by not running away which you will regret later on. You have to wait when you become an adult then you can decide on your own with out any interference. I know how you feel because I have a 17 yr. old son & he turns out to be a very responsible kid..
2007-06-12 22:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by shines56 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to them about their limits, ask what you can do for them to loosen up. Act responsibly and they will eventually relax things (some parents faster and moreso than others), but you've got to earn their trust. Anyhow, set standards with them so that if you do x (all your homework, get good grades, whatever) they will let you do y.
2007-06-12 22:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Slumlord 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
omg that happened to me when i was 12. The best way to deal with it is to talk to them for a while. But don' yell or be mean. Just tell them what you are feeling and how u think you should be treated. But be nice when you say it. it'll work
2007-06-12 22:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by maturegambino 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All kids need limits including adults.A lot depends on how mature you are at 13.
Behave responsibly and you will be rewarded for your efforts.
2007-06-12 23:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try being more responsible and oh please don't run away........your life will 10x's more miserable........what's out there on your own at 13 execpt living under the freeway and/ or selling your body to strange men............just bear with it and still respect your parents.......you have 5 more years to and then you can move out LEGALLY.........oh and by the way if you run away and your under the age of 18 you can and will be arrested and thrown into jail............trust me it's not worth it
2007-06-12 22:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by MSW2010 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
youre not going to like this answer,but its for your own good.they are very aware of whats going on in this world some people arent very nice,you might say theyre crazy,but your parents are looking out for you , when they set a curfew for you they expect you to follow the rules,so do as they say okay?
2007-06-12 22:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
so what? my grandma treats me like i'm 4, and i'm 29! and i don't even live with her!
get over it. you live under their roof, you live by their rules. you didn't even tell us what horrible things they are making you adhere to, so i doubt it's all that bad. you're 13, believe me, you need rules...
2007-06-12 22:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋