Her mother is now trying to get her to leave me. I was suicidle and looking for help befor the baby got here i put my-self in the hospitle.whin i got out i found out i got kicked out of my house.We now live three hour's apart. Now am looking for friendly adviece. Thank You.
We are still toghter and we spend long hour's on the phone and internet talking.
2007-06-12 15:01:11 · 4 answers · asked by mimmybro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I really suggest getting some talk therapy. I am sorry to hear you have been kicked out from your house. Do you work? Your G/F is 16, and under her parents guardianship. UNLESS you can prove you can take of yourself, they aren't going to want you around.
Are you guys planning on keeping the baby? Or giving it up for adoption. I don't want to push anything, but you only have 3 months to decide what is best for the baby and the 2 of you. Her parents are deciding for her, as is their right to do so.
Just start showing them you are trying to become responsible.
Good luck Hon!
2007-06-12 15:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are both very young and both sets of parents would be concerned with the welfare of the new mother and baby. Hang in there and wait until the baby is born because things may turn around completely then. If you want to be in your future child's life then it will be the time to offer help. Emotions would be very raw at this moment so just be patient. Smile and good luck
2007-06-13 08:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by i love my garden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys need to figure out how to you guys are going to work it out before the baby comes. you can't solve things by talking on the phone and internet because now you have a baby coming! get a job and help and maybe you could move in together
2007-06-12 22:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by belle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get therapy, for you and her and the family
2007-06-12 22:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋