I so have a messed up family, i honestly do...so listen to this!?

Question

ok so i have an aunt and uncle [well she is my aunt cause she married my uncle, just wanted to be precise]. my uncle has been cheating for years with plenty of women, everyone knows it including his wife. ok so the other day everyone found out that the wife was cheating also and suddenly she is called a slut! dont get me wrong two wrongs dont make a right but why didnt he get called any names and she gets to be called a whore??? i asked my relatives that same question, and the only reply i got was the a woman is different from a man....what the hell is this world coming to???

you guys dont understand how upset i was!! i was so pissed that i just left!

no need to be sorry, he's my uncle and i know his an asshole!

lol to giggly giraffe!!!!

Answer 1

(La la laaa laaawwaaa (oops) ... la La LA LAAAAAA ;o)

This is for my girls all around the world (around the world)
Who have come across a man that don't respect your worth (oh ooh)
Thinking all women should be seen not heard (ohh)
So what do we do girls, shout louder
Lettin 'em know we're gonna stand our ground
So lift your hands higher and wave 'em proud (ohh)
Take a deep breath and say it loud (ohh)
Never can, never will
Can't hold us down

Nobody can hold us down (Hold us down)
Nobody can hold us down (Hold us down)
Nobody can hold us down (Hold us down)
Never can, never will

So, what am I not supposed to say what I'm saying
Are you offended with the message I'm bringing
Call me whatever 'cause your words don't mean a thing
'Cause you ain't even a man enough to handle what I sing

If you look back in history
It's a common double standard of society
The guy gets all the glory the more he can score
While the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whore
I don't understand why it's okay
The guy can get away with it the girl gets named
All my ladies come together and make a change
And start a new beginning for us, everybody sing

This is for my girls all around the world (Round the world)
Who have come across a man that don't respect your worth
(Respect your worth)
Thinking all women should be seen not heard (ohh)
So what do we do girls, shout louder
Lettin 'em know we're gonna stand our ground
So lift your hands higher and wave 'em proud (ohh)
Take a deep breath and say it loud
Never can, never will
Can't hold us down

Lil' Kim:
Check it
Here's something I just can't understand
If a guy have three girls then he's the man
He can even give us some head, and sex her raw
If the girl do the same, then she's a whore
But the table's about to turn
I'll bet my fame on it
Cats take my ideas and put they name on it
It's aight though, you can't hold me down
I got to keep on moving

To all my girls with a man who be trying to mack
Do it right back to him and let that be that
You need to let him know that his game is whack
And Lil' Kim and Christina Aguilera got your back

You're just a little boy
Think you're so cute so coy
You must talk so big, to make up for smaller things
Said you're just a little boy
All you do is annoy
You must talk so big, to make up for smaller things

(This is for my girls)
This is for my girls all around the world (ohh)
Who have come across a man that don't respect your worth
(Respect your worth, oh ooh)
Thinking all women should be seen not heard
So what do we do girls, shout louder (Shout louder)
Lettin 'em know we're gonna stand our ground
(Stand our ground)
So lift your hands higher and wave 'em proud (oh ooh)
Take a deep breath and say it loud
Never can, never will
Can't hold us down (oh ooh)

Answer 2

It has long been known that when men fool around, it's okay. When women do it, they are whores. I always wondered, if that were the case, what were the women called that were cheating with the men. It is all a double standard.

Answer 3

Classic case of double standard. You should clap your aunt on the back and congratulate her for a job well done. Give her some support. It seems they had a little arrangement. The rest of your family needs to mind its business.

Answer 4

that is completey messed up but i underestand what u mean. it seems men get away with things like this, it's considered lately as the norm and 'trend' these days to have more than 1 woman. women however cant rly get away with things like that coz they r at risk of getting pregnant and are considered to be more loyal to a partner compared to guys. i for one, oppose the idea of male and female unfaithfulness and they're all equal in their acts. if a woman is known as an idiot if she sleeps around, then men should be known as idiots when they sleep around too, it's only fair.

we live in an age where man and woman are supposed to be equal.

Answer 5

Everybody is going by way of this a couple of times in there lifestyles. Everyone wishes to slot in. It's average to think that manner. If you simply desire any person to let you know it is ok, you are relatively at a low commonplace. You want a precise pal. A precise pal probablly would possibly not come correct now, however i will be able to guarentee you a real pal will come to you sooner or later. truthfully, you do not appear 12. you appear extra sixteen. however i did not see you as a slut. To me, if i had been to ever see you going for walks down the streets i might be considering "That woman is such a lot prettier than me, she have got to have a well lifestyles... plenty of peers. i want i used to be her" ._. I do this plenty for a few purpose and i am 14 :/ so it is very average to think the way you think. What you are doing, the ingesting and stuff, it;s now not well. You would get your self killed and/or raped like that. IF YOU LIKE YOUR NEW FRIENDS AND THEY'RE DOING STUFF WRONG, DON'T HANG OUT WITH THEM. You can speak to them and chil lwith them however now not if they are going two be ingesting. I believe ur ancient peers appear like they desire to safeguard you from some thing tradgeic. I'm now not judging, however i do strongly recommend you are taking a appear at your lifestyles and the choices you're making in it. Imagine your self getting totally wasted... what if whatever had been to occur to you? You would finish yup commiting suicide as good. and no one wishes that. Honestly,, i might be blissful to speak with you... to make you think... much less by myself if i will be able to. it breaks my center to learn whatever like this, and that i relatively do not desire some thing tradgic going down to you :( If you want me to talk with you, identification be blissful to giv you my e mail or whatever. God Bless you

Answer 6

It's called a double standard. One for guys, but a higher standard for gals. No, it's not right, but that's how it's been for a LONG time.

Answer 7

unfortunately, none of this addresses the reasons why they have been unfaithful...is he just an egoist or is your aunt an ice-cube in bed? now that she is also getting some on the side, does that mean she's given up on him? and why now? what changed that much? relationships are very multi-dimensional, which is why i suggest acceptance rather than condemnation because you have no idea what's going on in their dynamics.

Answer 8

The world has been this way. Don't despair. Learn and in your knowledge grow to wisdom and in your wisdom find peace

Answer 9

it sounds like you are the only person in your family that has any sense. at least you are questioning the double standard.

Answer 10

guys are ***** and they think there purfect! thats mess that your aunt got cald a whore! he should of got cald some stupi name like that too! what a dick! sorry!!!