Me and my boyfriend are each others first for everything. We've been together for 2 years. Yesterday he found this itty bitty red bump on the head of his penis and hes worried its syphillis. I know for a fact that i dont have that or any std. I don't have any sores nor have been with any other person. We don't have sex but i do give him oral sex. In a way i am a little offended, but i understand that he is worried. Hes going to get it checked out in a few days. I personally think its an irriation but he is really worried about it. What do you think it could be?
He also doesnt want oral sex anymore so we're just sticking to hand jobs.
2007-06-12 12:41:56 · 10 answers · asked by hot_pink_sunsets 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
Its just a tiny bit raised and it looks exactly like a pimple. Very tiny. Almost like he just pinched himself.
2007-06-12 12:49:44 · update #1
Define sex?
2007-06-12 12:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by fonzarelli_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't really describe this 'bump' too well. For instance is it a raised, red bump? Does it look more like a pimple, a boil, or a wart? Is there any drainage like pus, or clear fluid?
Whatever it is, YOU need to also get checked out. Don't take any chances.
After all, YOU know where you've been, but you really don't know where HE'S been.
Better to be safe than sorry. Go to the doc or the clinic and get a checkup.
2007-06-12 19:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Doodlebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to go the the DR asap. You need not to give him oral anymore until he knows for sure. As a matter of fact, you say that you know for sure that you don't have anything but did you get checked/blood test anything? You need to go w/ him when he goes. Sounds like herpes or syphillis to me. Maybe he slept w/ someone else???
2007-06-12 19:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by HisWife 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends what the bump looks like and how big it is . If you know that he is your only partner than don't worry it is probably just irritation , the penis can be very sensitive.
2007-06-12 19:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please " google" or look up this word. using only one "l". my dictionairy. didn't list any symptoms. NOte. I'm sure you could look it up and your fine. I've went to the doctor a few times. the dermitologist told me it was just the color of my skin. If you never cheated and He never cheated. Whats to worrry about. besides what desease gives you one tiny spot. HIcky? if he is lucky.
2007-06-12 19:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by hifi1863 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you don't have an STD? And oral sex IS sex. So are handjobs.
2007-06-12 19:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's a pimple but i would still get it checked out.
2007-06-12 19:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get it checked out but probably just a bit of infection.......
2007-06-12 19:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by scottish football ....nuff said 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a pimple
2007-06-12 19:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will not always be std but it can
2007-06-12 19:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by vandamme's girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋