My boyfriend who has cancer we had sex for the first time, around the first week after he found out about his cancer. Now i am pregnant and i just don't know what do.
How do I tell a guy with cancer he is having a son?
I am only 16! and do i keep it
2007-06-12 11:10:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO I KEEP IT
I REALLY WANT TOO BUT I AM SARED
2007-06-12 11:10:57 · update #1
CANT DO THIS ON MY OWN I NEED HIM BUT HE WILL NOT BE THERE FOR ME IF I DONT IF I DO TELL HIM IF HE SAYS NO I AM ON MY OWN BUT IF HE SAYS YES IT WILL SARE ME BECUSE I DONT KNO IF I SCOULD KEEP IT
2007-06-12 11:12:23 · update #2
Just because he has cancer doesn't mean he won't be able to be there for you. Not every one that gets cancer dies. Many people go into remission and live for many years. Keeping a child at 16 will not be easy whether or not the father has cancer. Talk it over with both families and see if they are willing to help you guys out. You will definitely need their help and support.
2007-06-12 11:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥itsme♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should set him down, and explain to him that you are pregnant and ask him what he thinks about it. Just because he has cancer doesn't mean that he wouldn't be there for you. Not all people that get cancer die, alot go into remission and live long lives. Ask him his opinion on keeping it or not. And I think you should think about what you want in life before you decide on keeping the baby or not. If you want to go to college, I would seriously think about giving it up for adoption. But there are people that have kids that go on to college. Does your parents know that your pregnant, if not I think that you should tell them. If they do know, then I think you should talk to them about you concerns. About keeping the baby, and how the father will react. You are young, and a baby is a big responsibility. And you should really think hard about this, if you know that you wouldn't be able to take care of a baby, then it might be best for the baby to give it up. But really I think that is a decision only you can make for yourself. Well good luck with everything.
2007-06-12 11:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by anyone21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, if you really want to keep this baby, then keep it!!There cant be anything worse than killing an innocent life, then wanting it a few months later.Babies are little bundles of joy--i dont have kids, but i love them, and plan on having a few.once i'm married.Even if the guy has cancer, you'll still have the baby in his memory,and it will probably hurt him badly if you dont tell him, then dont keep it.E-mail me with what you've decided at:Amia_z22@yahoo.com
2007-06-12 11:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it a baby is a gift from god you'll find someone else when he dies he only wants the best for you you'll find him a father!! *:)Shyness(:*
2007-06-12 11:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Shyness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not an " IT " this is a child, and please give the child up for adoption, I'd tell him but that's me.
2007-06-12 11:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋