everyday i put my head to the window and listen to my ipod.... i dont have any friends except the music teacher... he's really nice... i really dont talk much... i am really smart... how do i get friends? without asking to be friends. i listen to alotta rock, and i drown out everything... my dad is an alcoholic, my mom, a prostitute.... why am i so depressed?
2007-06-12 08:56:53 · 9 answers · asked by crapface mcghee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can be your friend..
well like other answeres have said.. talking is the best thing
and many people say tthat friends arent everything
of course is nice to have someone to share secrets and laughs
but also its good to be your own best friend
one day you will realize taht being that quiet smart girl
may take you to many places
i used to be just like you
all i did was think and listen to my ipod
all alone just wondering
but yu have to set yurself some goals
yu seem very interested in music
and you seem very bright
so why not combine all those
things and become a rockstar
or something
that way you can put
all your tremendous great qualities
and talents and put all
your emotions out
you have to believe in yourself
never give up
and work hard
sometimes being that quiet
and smart girl keeps you away from lots of trouble
and gives you a hunger to be successful
believe in yourself
if you possibly do need friends
the only way you will find them is by talking
if theres people in your school
that like rock
or anything you like talk to them
ie: what;s your favorite rock artist?
btw if you have myspace,add me,
i would love to talk to you more
myspace.com/beautymadeinbrazil
well i wish you the best!
2007-06-12 09:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of it is your parents they are not good parents at all. Enjoy your school years and talk to people about stuff in class to make friends. when you get old enough get a job so you will be out of the house making your own money but make good grades in school so you can go away to college. Whatever you do do not make bad decisions you will get your reward for doing well and your life will be better than you can imagine.
2007-06-12 09:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a friend look for a person that is lonely and just sit by them. Then gradually you could start small talk. now about your dad, if your dad loves you all you have to do is tell him how much he is hurting you emotionally with his drinking emotionally and that you will help him quit. it will be hard but it is for the better. is your family poor because if it is not i wouldnt udestand why your mom would sell her body but confront her too. tell her that she only cheapens herself and her family by prostituting and that she will stop if she loves you or her family.If you are poor pray for your mother to get a real job and for your dad to stop drinkin. pray every nite and everyday. the best of luck to you.
2007-06-12 09:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are depressed, and you need to see someone who understands your condition. You need to see your guidance counselor or school psychologist or another mental health professional. No excuses, just go. I remember being 12, and I know that even in good situations, it is hard to feel hopeful and in control of your life. It is tempting to withdraw into your own world in order to avoid situations that seem unbeatable, but find a professional to help you. Start with your guidance counselor. You can also talk to your doctor or the school nurse. Or speak with your priest/rabbi. They are trained to deal with situations like this, and can point you in the right direction.
Your story is troubling. I'm also concerned by the name that you are using (----face). It's very unhealthy to call yourself nasty names. It is self-destructive, and being like that is a hard habit to break. But please change the name you use, for your own benefit. It is important for you to nurture yourself, and to find someone to help you do so. Best wishes, and take good care of yourself. You shouldn't try to deal with this all alone, and you don't have to.
2007-06-12 09:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by bp1735 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being at the age of 12 is not easy especially if you have difficulties at home with your parents. You first need to reach out to other relatives or friends who are dependable and let them know about your situation at home. Your parents are obviously not providing you with a good stable home and you need to make them face reality by reporting them to Child Protective Services. Maybe intervention is what they will need in order to become more responsible parents. Please get the help you so need, my heart goes out to you.
2007-06-12 09:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eek
i think the above states y ur depressed
to get friends just talk to someone andget to no then invite them to hang out or somthing
someone else thay t dosent have manny friends will be eaiser to make friends with
things will get better
2007-06-12 09:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by 1bluesock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest going to your school counselor or your doctor and discussing this. You'll need more help than you'll get here. Good luck!
2007-06-12 09:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the dr's and tell him you need help tell him about ya mum and dad ask him to get you help
2007-06-12 09:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're kinda weird man.
counselour.
2007-06-12 09:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by HOLLiSTER PREP 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋