what if you are drunk and someone you know have sex with you and you didn't know until they told you when u woke up...but this person never have sex with that person sober.until she gets drunk and doen't know what's going on? what would u call that is it her fault or his?
2007-06-12 08:48:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't believe people when they say they don't remember something or couldn't control their actions when they were drunk...
I've been beyond drunk... but never once didn't have control of my decisions. It's every persons fault that's involved. If there was no consent then it's rape
2007-06-12 08:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by jd 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
First of all are you drunk while writing this, cause it's really all over the place...try to convey a smooth running thought.
Ok-if you are drunk to a point where you are no longer capable of making a decision for yourself & someone engages in a sexual act w/o your permission. In my OPINION that would be considered rape & wrong. This would be the guys fault for taking ADVANTAGE of a situation where you were UNABLE to concent to the act.
The only thing the "girl" did getting too drunk was using poor judgement. The "guy" in this scenero is a rapist.
2007-06-12 08:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were drunk and consented, then maybe it is ok. It is no one's fault. If you did NOT consent, however, then it is rape. If anyone has sex with you without your consent, it is rape. Period.
Either way, the girl in question had better watch their drinking. If someone is so drunk that they don't remember what happened, then they drank too much. It is VERY dangerous.
2007-06-12 08:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. It's your fault for drinking so much. However with the rest if you were passed out and he took advantage it is clearly his bad. However if you were awake, drunk, and receptive it sounds like it's probably both of your faults, and you experienced a "black out" so you don't remember.
2007-06-12 08:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are responsible for your own actions, even when you are drunk, if someone consents to sex while drunk, but doesn't remember it the next day, my advice is not to get so damn drunk.
2007-06-12 08:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well was the guy drunk and from what i am hearing he was not and it sounds like he took advantage of the situation and no it would not be her fault
2007-06-12 08:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its your fault for getting drunk. But its their fault for taking advantage of you. So basically its both of you two's fault.
2007-06-12 08:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
forgive me but how you not going to notice that you was with someone even if you was drunk you know what happen at least you was drunk and use drougs.are sure you didn,t realize what happen?
2007-06-12 08:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the oldest excuse in the world...i was drunk...he took advantage..also it is a low thing to take advantage of anyone who is high or intoxicated to have your way with them...men or women..lots of women use alcohol to seduce men too...so it goes both ways...both parties are at wrong...two wrongs don't make right
2007-06-13 03:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes 2 to tango. its not one persons fault, its hers for getting that drunk and wanting to have sex but isnt gutsy enough to do it sober when she most likely wants to. and its his for taking advantage and also for not explaining things sober. you cant forget it happened every time if it was a one time thing then maybe thats all it will ever be.
2007-06-12 08:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋