ok im a 17 year old male and theres this girl i like but shes not my girlfriend. i cant stop thinking about her and its affecting my relationship with my friends and my family plus i lost my desire to go to work (before i started likeing her i went to work 6 days a week and i worked about 10 hours a day on weekends and days i dont go to school but now i dont evan wanna go to work PERIOD! now i can barely afford to pay for gas to put in my car or pay my phone bill) i REALLY REALLY dont like how this is affecting my life but i cant stop thinking about her all i wont to do is be around her or talk to her on the phone can sombody PLEASE!! give me some advise?
2007-06-12 07:11:15 · 5 answers · asked by george s 1 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
This is an ancient problem, my son.
It is called being a hormone-riddled teenager.
Only time will cure this ill.
2007-06-12 10:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by annette a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are exhausted and mentally stressed from all your work with very little personal time off. All this has resulted in your brain and emotions focusing on this one girl as a form of stress relief.
You should reduce your workload and take a couple days off to recharge yourself. You need a day off for your psyche, regardless of how much money you are not earning! And you need to put yourself together so that when you do approach this girl, you are not a complete basket-case.
It's great that you like this girl so much but the best way to temper this is to look at yourself critically and figure out reasons why she should like you in return! If it's all about you and how you like her, it won't give her any room to like you back.
Take a break, calm down, learn how to surf, chill. When you have recharged, you'll be ready to approach her and feel normal about it.
Good Luck.
2007-06-12 14:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by enn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely should try talking to her. More seriously though, you should go and see your doctor. You may have an underlying mental illness such as depression or OCD that is causing this to be an obsession which is disrupting your life. Good luck to you.
2007-06-12 14:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bethe W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought about asking her out. If she says, yes, then see how things go.
2007-06-12 14:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rossergirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have you tried talking to her?
if she likes you back, great - you should have your work enthusiams back.
If she does not like you, why should you ruin your life b/c of her?
2007-06-12 14:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋