i had a first date tonight with a girl i 'met' online. known her two months... one month on match, one month on myspace.. in which she requested me on and sent me a msg first. i mentioned meeting up few weeks ago, just saying we should sometime, and that i enjoy talking to her. she said ' i like talking to you too' and agreed we should meet up. a week later she brought it up.. i asked her what shes doing that next week, she said, 'hanging out with you silly.' i was on vacation, which she knew about, so i replied 3/4 days later, to find a good time to meet up. she said she was getting over a cold... 3 days later she emails me saying shes all better and says "maybe we could talk on the phone. what do you think? and arrange to meet up."
i reply with yes and my cell#, and then she gives hers. we've been txting back n forth. so today around noon or 1pm she txted me (havent talked on phone yet) and said she had to cancel and shes really sorry, that she has to get a tooth pulled
2007-06-12 06:40:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
, and hopes we can reschedule. i reply "ya of course" and she replies "good i was hoping you'd say that" and then on to say they gave her some sleeping medicine and shes about to fall asleep in a few seconds.
i'm not questioning her at all... if she didnt wanna meet she wouldnt of brought it up, and then again asked if we can arrange something, requested me on myspace, gave me her cell, said we should talk on the phone, etc.
question is... should i reschedule, or let her come to me?
and do you think she cancelled on purpose? maybe shes nervous about meeting bc shes afraid shes not what im expecting?
does it make sense she cancelled bc she doesnt like me? after 2 months of showing interest.. etc..?
2007-06-12 06:41:59 · update #1
It really sounds as though she is telling you the truth, she wouldn't have given you her number and she wouldn't be texting you if she wasn't interested in talking to you! Don't doubt her! If she got her tooth pulled she's probably in pain! Send her an online get well card or something, make her smile! Don't be too pushy, when she says she's ready to go out again, then take her!
2007-06-12 06:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just let her come to you. she's the one who has issues with her teeth, her helath and whatnot. only she will know when she's all better in order for you guys to meet. just put the ball in her court and wait. i'd send a txt in a day or so and say that you hope she's feeling better and all...then invite her to contact you when she's 100% and ready to go out.
NOW, if she makes some plans w/ you and cancels after that, she might have lost interest.
good luck!
2007-06-12 13:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id wait and let her ask u again
u dont wana seem too interested cause it might freak her out a lil but if she really wants 2 meet u then she'll ask again
u cant blame her 4 being a lil nervous about meeting u but u seem like a nice guy just dont let her walk all over u
2007-06-12 13:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by dansaimerxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy but its so obvious cuz this happened to me before too, shes nervous is all. but hey i would be too if i did some online dating crap lol
2007-06-12 13:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Garrett1421 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her come to you kid,thats the way it started remember.
2007-06-12 13:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋