a 18 girl want to have sex w/ me.well she wanted to know if i was a virgin;well i'm waiting tell i got married to have sex;but she lost her virginity.....
2007-06-12 06:38:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well should i have sex w/ her or not?
2007-06-18 09:55:12 · update #1
Hey God forgives her, Can you? Stick by your standards, it's the right thing to do.
2007-06-12 15:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is simply a distraction and a temptation. If you have decided to wait to have sex until you are married you definitely want to stick to it. I'm 23 and still a virgin. I am waiting until marriage as well. Also you are displaying self-control and that's very admirable, esp. when we don't see it as often as we should. Don't take the easy route...continue with the challenge, you will be rewarded for doing things God's way. Also the oldest male virgin I know is 26...So there are definitely more of us out there!!
2007-06-20 05:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by sparklegyrl610 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a choice: be a thermostat or a thermometer. Set the values you live by or let someone else do that instead. It's how you give up your freedom to be who you want to be that will determine whether you will respect yourself later.
And virginity is not a matter of a broken hymen. A girl can lose this in gymnastics or other ways. If she wants to start over it will be a matter of mind and spirit rather than body alone.
2007-06-19 18:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by ndorphynbear@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I could be a virgin again and give myself to someone I truly loved, I would. Wait for that right person, and don't marry just to have sex.
2007-06-20 06:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by wonder why 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stick to your values. Waiting until your married to have sex is perfectly fine. It will mean much more if you have sex with the person you love rather with just someone just to do it. You wanted to wait you should wait that's my advice tell her there's other guys out there to go find them she sounds a little on the wild side to me. You might catch something.
2007-06-19 16:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say not if you have the reason for waiting until marriage. It sounds like you are saying that is the reason but you've never had a girl bluntly put the proposition to you before. Now that she's laying it on the line, you have to consider: is it the lack of opportunity that makes waiting attractive? If you were surrounded by horny attractive girls begging to have sex with you, would you still want to wait until marriage?
2007-06-20 03:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay true to your beliefs. If you REALLY want to wait until you are married, then do so. Don't ever let anyone change your mind...plus there are so many other things you can do instead of sex that would please her as well...If she really likes you, she'll stick by you...good luck and hope this helped!
2007-06-20 06:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get married then have sex, but marry someone you LOVE not to just have sex. She will understand.
2007-06-20 05:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by мαɢɢιє 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should pressure your self into having sex. i think that you should wait until you get married and if any girl don't understand that then they are not the one for you.
2007-06-20 02:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are a virgin. tell her you're waiting until marraige. since u wanna wait until marriage, it means that having sex has to mean something and that it's important. if she can't respect ur descion, then she's not worth having sex with. stick to ur beleifs
2007-06-20 05:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by koolgal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is coming from a 19 year old GIRL...who lost her virginity too young. SAVE IT! i would kill to have it back...wait until you are married. i wanted to but didnt. i regret it.
2007-06-19 16:54:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋