Ok from my previous questions its obvious he is playing games with me.
It bothers me of course, but i like this guy so should i play games with him too???
Like right now, i called him....no answer...no response. Last time we talked he said he is for sure coming to see me. Catch is he has never been to my house.
Should i send him a text message giving him my address, and say "call me if you get lost" ??
Or should i just sit around and wait for him to call?
2007-06-12 06:33:00 · 14 answers · asked by Mandi R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
EXACTLY WHAT SHOULD I DO?
I have never played games before
2007-06-12 06:42:12 · update #1
Make other plans and don't call him. If he wants to see you - he'll call you first. In which case, you say, "Oh - I didn't hear from you so I made other plans". Set some groundwork so that he knows you have a life and you only make time for those who make time for you. If he doesn't - well then - we know where you stand now - don't we?
It's not really playing games. It's being smart. It's being honest. Don't wait around for him. He needs to learn early that you deserve some respect and if he wants to see you - he needs to make some plans and communicate - he needs to be there - on time - and not keep you hanging because that's what you deserve and if he doesn't pull through - you are confident enough that there is someone else who will. Done deal.
2007-06-12 06:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a girl that does the same to me I finally cut her off I came to realize that Im only valuable to her on her terms only Im not playing that game with her
2007-06-12 13:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will sound childish, but play back, if it's even worth it, he'll be like 'damn, she's losing interest' and start calling you again, if he doesn't then you need to have a serious talk about what you both want.
2007-06-12 13:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make alternate plans.
Games are for children only. Adults don't have to play games. If he is that immature, he is not worth your time and or attention.
2007-06-12 13:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by raynbowsyns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with a guy who plays games. It is a total waste of time. He is obviously immature, and you deserve a man...not a boy.
2007-06-12 13:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I say if he wants to play you should play. If you really like him and he plays with you like that maybe he should find out how it feels to be played as well. I say play but make sure you win!!!!
2007-06-12 13:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 rule for guys: never let a girl play head games withyou. so yeah play back. call him, have a conversation then work in "call me if you get lost" sumhow.
2007-06-12 13:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nick V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes playing games say the heck with him, dont play them back, 2 wrongs dont make a right and u will just be waisitng ur time.
2007-06-12 13:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by baby_love_marybeth 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if hes already messing with your head...move on and find someone that wants to be with you for who you are... all you end up doing by playing the same game is to continue to be on that emotional rollercoaster he is putting you through...and you dont need or deserve that...gl
2007-06-12 13:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by GA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't dit around waiting and don't give him the addy, he should be chasing you. If he wants to play games show him that your not waiting for his behind..you have other options.
2007-06-12 13:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋