I like this guy. He is extreemly intelligent, put together, inspiring, strong.... etc... He is everything that I admire. I want to try to impress him or maybe make him see me in a "new light" if you know what I mean... But I have no clue what to do. Also , we both love writting. He said he would love to read some of my work sometime. But after hearing his stuff mine sounds like crap and so now I am way too intimidated to let him. Is he just out of my league? or do you think theres something I could do about this?
2007-06-12 05:39:15 · 5 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, whatever you do, don't put yourself down because of the way he is! You are not out of his league, i know so because if you are attracted to what he is, you are on the same level as him! I think you could do something about this. Try and find out more about him and if he is single and he interests you more, try asking him out on a date, just a friend kind of date. Guys like it when you approach them so it's worth a try honey. But if you don't feel comfortable around him because of his 'perfectness' then you have to move on.
2007-06-12 05:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to read some of your work than he probably has some interest in you. He wants to get a better understanding of you. That also opened the door for him to easily let you hear his stuff. A big portion of a guys motives is his ego. Especially if he is intelligent. Sad... but true. If he wants you to read his material, most likely he wants you to admire him. This is another good sign he likes you. Don't worry so much it will keep you from being yourself. Self-confidence is a girls worst enemy when dealing with guys.
2007-06-12 12:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by heion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you like about his writing (be specific and give a couple examples) and ask him if he can give you a couple pointers on how to improve one of your pieces. Don't take a lot of his time, but if you check back with him after making improvements—a cycle or two of that, if there's any chance of a spark there, that could jump start it.
2007-06-12 12:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a writer myself, I can tell you the quality of your work doesn't matter to him that much unless you are trying to recruit him as a writing partner. If he said he would love to read it, give it to him, listen to his comments, and bite your tongue until he's done.
If you live here in LA, I have to say he is all wrong for you. Come and see me and we will write each others secrets and make neurotic babies who will be writers too.
2007-06-12 20:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by yurbud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why pursue someone who makes you feel uncomfortable, insecure or intimidated? He should be trying to impress you, not the other way around.
2007-06-12 12:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋