Why are there "Unwanted Babies"?
Isn't sex saying you're hot, you'd make good babies, and I trust you (enough to be a parent & love me) ... so, why is 'trust' missing from "Sex" in our culture?
2007-06-12 05:23:42 · 10 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Because humans procreate for pleasure, which does not take population density into account.
2007-06-12 05:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by arkansaszippers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its not always about "making good babies". Often enough its just about "you're hot" and getting physical pleasure out of the interaction.
Having sex is nothing special really. Humans and some animals do things because it feels good to do them. Having sex does not make a person a wh*** or a sl**. It means they are willing to have a good time and they know how to have it.
Besides, Trust has almost nothing to do with sex. Trust has to do with love though. And if you love somebody enough to have sex to try to procreate, then you are saying that you trust that person enough that he/she will stay around for the kid.
2007-06-12 05:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Humanist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, sex is not always intended for the purpose of impregnating a woman and starting a family. People have sex for a variety of reasons; love, sexual appetite/horniness, out of curiosity, most of all coz its fun. Now, in the these modern times, you saying that trust is no more in sex, does have a point. Well, all I can say is if you think trust is foremost important to you, it is upto you to make sure you develop trust with your partner before you sleep with him. Wether there should be trust at all or not, is a matter of personal preference.
2007-06-12 05:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Humans, both men and women, have two competing reproductive strategies. We crave sex with hot partners, yet we also crave stable partners for raising our children. Finding a partner who is both hot and stable is the ideal.
More typical is nesting with a stable partner and then occasionally partnering with hotties on the sly. Men are more famous for this sort of behavior, but it is ingrained in women, too.
Several studies examining the DNA of newborns in America, Canada, the UK, and Australia accidentally revealed that upwards of 10-25% of newborns were genetically unrelated to the fathers listed on their birth certificates. Women are just as perfidious as men. They're just better at not getting caught.
2007-06-12 05:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by fulminouscherub 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I blame the dominate religions in the world. They took all the power and wonder out of it and turned it into something dirty and "sinful". It is about control of women and domination of society. Besides taking the trust away they also took respect away. That is one of the reasons why I am no longer a part of any of those religions. They are about destruction, hate and money. Blessed Be.
2007-06-12 05:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold that thought, I'm getting my ex-husband's phone # for you.
He thinks a LOT of women are hot!
2007-06-12 05:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ivyvine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because to many people are selfish and sick. sex has become nothing more than a good time. not something important, or even sacred as it should be. its just something people do to feel good. not something that is recognized as a gift to us, to help us love more deeply and bring children into the world.
2007-06-12 05:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because people have sex for different reasons and not everyone practices safe sex.
2007-06-12 05:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of trust... means they aren't a narc
2007-06-12 05:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because marriage is missing from sex.
God told us how to do it but we continue to ignore him.
2007-06-12 05:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋