I have a real good relationship with his sister and mother.
2007-06-12 02:34:57 · 13 answers · asked by LADYBUG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No! It is in very poor taste! And even if your fiance is okay with it, people will talk about you. Don't do. I'm sure they will understand why they weren't invited.
2007-06-12 04:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Des 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as everyone is okay with it there should be no big issue. And there are so many different scenarios on why they might be "ex in-laws" it would be hard for me to say a blanket no. We plan on inviting my boyfriend's former in-laws to the wedding and lighting a candle in remembrance of their daughter and my father. Each situation is unique and if everyone can handle it then go for it.
2007-06-12 10:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can invite anyone you want to. my ex in laws and my fiance's ex in laws will be invited to our wedding. there are no hard feelings about our previous relationships at all, we all accept each other as family regardless. my ex in laws think my fiance is the best thing that's ever happened to me, and his ex in laws think the same thing vice versa.
2007-06-12 10:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, it just does not sit well with me. Plus, what will your future in-laws say. If I went to a wedding of a family member and found out the bride's ex in-laws were there. I'd be a little worried.
Inviting your ex-in laws says, "yeah, your son wasn't good enough, but this guy is great. Sorry, it didn't work out. " to them.
It says, " Maybe I'll invite you to the third wedding," to your new in-laws.
Don't air your old dirty laundry at the beginning of your new marriage.
2007-06-12 09:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
That is entirely up to you and your fiance. If he is okay with it, then I would say, invite them! I had my husband's ex wife at our wedding...cause it was a long time ago, and they were still friends. Sure, there were people who thought me crazy, but I didn't care. It was our wedding, and our guest list.
2007-06-12 09:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its always touchy. However if you are really close, why not?? I do agree with the one who said ask your financee, just in case.
Really this isn't unusual.
Good Luck :)
2007-06-12 11:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by jeaniesfloral 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not? My ex-husband is coming to mine. lol He wanted to, and plus he's taking our daughter afterwards so it works out great for me!
2007-06-12 10:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by mannasox 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sure why not.... there your Friends aren't they????? As long as your partner doesn't mind it shouldn't matter what anyone else says, its your day!!
2007-06-12 09:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by ibabixes 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no, no matter how good your relationship is with them.
2007-06-12 10:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
As long as its alright with your fiance.
2007-06-12 09:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by melouofs 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋