What would u do after eleven years of courtship with a guy who made you not to go abroad and have good jobs just because he didn't want you to be very far from him, coz accoriding to him he wanted to marry you, you made him be part of your life despite the distance btwn u, you are honest and faithful to him, but recently he just told you he is no longer interested in marriage cause he has no money and would not want to waste your time. after you said NO to all men who wanted to marry.
as a lady what would you do this person who calls himself a man?
becky
2007-06-12 00:52:44 · 8 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him either marry you for love or forget you forever.
Marriage isn't about money.
2007-06-12 04:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he has some heavy issues to deal with himself. I'd tell him your plans and let him know he decides NOW so you can get on with your life. Honey there is a real Life out there. Do you want a real life? That is your only question, don't let someone else make your decision. Be true to yourself !
2007-06-12 01:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by SALSA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't a man, a man understands that you work together to support yourselves and you family (wife/kids). You need to explain to him what marriage would mean to you and that you deserve better than what he has given you. Move on, if he comes running back fine but for now run towards the rest of your life.
2007-06-12 00:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a typical man after all!!! he jus timepassed wid u all this while long.....maybe he loved you....but thts faded n probably he's got someone else....and if all this is not the case...then go tel him u're marryin him not his money...then too if he says no n all tht...then jus chuck him out of ur life n move on....he doesnt deserve even 11 more miinutes of ur life then!!!
God bless you
2007-06-12 01:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by dreamgurl_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take responsibility for my own life, pack my bags and change my phone number.
2007-06-12 00:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Julieann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asure him that you marry him with out the money too. money should not be all to it to get married . If he wanted to marry you , he should have done it a very long time ago!
2007-06-12 00:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
11 years? What the heck were you thinking????
2007-06-12 00:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, becky, u re not a smart woman. why blame anybody for that? well, except your parents of course.
2007-06-12 00:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by yeahright 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋