So, I lost my virginity to this guy and now he wants to be my boyfriend. But I don't really like him, (it was just a one-night stand sort of thing) so I told my BFF to tell him no. And now he's acting all sad and stuff. I kinda feel bad but I absolutly don't wanna go out with him. What should I do????
2007-06-11 23:42:16 · 24 answers · asked by Jew_Juice 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldnt feel bad because you dont want to do something that might make someone else happy. You have the right to make your own choices, so dont feel bad at all.
I think you should have told him yourself. It looks better if the truth came from you. Believe me, when you handle problems the right way, people respect your decision more, even if they are still disappointed.
I personally would send this guy and email or at least call and tell him yourself. That would be the nice thing to do. Put yourself in his place.
Good luck..
2007-06-11 23:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you let this guy take your V if you dont really like him, if you weren't fussy you should have contacted me.
He might be gutted cos you might have took his virginity aswell, he could have thought you were special.
Your first lesson about sex, be careful who you share a bed with cos some people are crazy mother f***ers.
2007-06-11 23:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Trev23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way you are a bad person. You've just done something wrong and that borthers you and makes him to suffer. Explain him you've made a mistake and you are so sorry about his feelings which is true, right? Such things happen.
2007-06-11 23:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a bad person but it's not nice to play with someone's feelings n after dat make him act sad n stuff..
Since you dun like him,tell it to him.
2007-06-12 04:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by irene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you have sex with someone that you do not care about? Don't you realize that your body should be shared only when you do care about the person. You need a lesson in self respect. Don't let you body be used by guys. You are not being fair to them or to yourself.
2007-06-11 23:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well its just like that with girls too, If a guy sleeps with a girl doesn't the girl get hurt when she finds out it was just a one off? Maybe he thought it was something deeper then just skin, But I can't speak from experience here, I'm just presuming
2007-06-11 23:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Hawk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok it is clear that having sex with this guy meant a lot to him, you just used him. Do you if it was his first time aswel? I am glad there is a guy out there with correct moral values and does treat a women like you have just treated him. These people are rear,
2007-06-11 23:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by galwaygirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what is the difference between sleeping with one or 10 guys? steeling 1$ or 10$?try to get answers!
2007-06-11 23:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have told him yourself that you didn't want to go out with him and really you shouldn't have slept with him in the first place if you didn't really like him. there's nothing you can do about it now, what's done is done, just move on
2007-06-11 23:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it meant nothing, and that you're not interested in anything more from him. You don't want him to have the wrong idea, or to pine for you any more than he already is.
2007-06-11 23:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋