i always try to talk infront of the people but i it found hard to do that. some time i done like to talk too mutch and i feel like to leaves the crowd as well. what can i do to aviod that manners?
2007-06-11 21:58:31 · 6 answers · asked by agany t 1 in Environment ➔ Global Warming
Try Toastmasters. It's a free club that helps people learn to speak in public.
Toastmasters International (TI) is a nonprofit educational organization that operates clubs worldwide for the purpose of helping members improve their communication, public speaking and leadership skills. Through its member clubs, Toastmasters International helps men and women learn the arts of speaking, listening, and thinking--vital skills that promote self-actualization, enhance leadership potential, foster human understanding, and contribute to the betterment of mandkind.
2007-06-15 11:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you feel confident, people won't know the difference. And soon you will feel more confident. Also, watch people you admire. What are they doing? How much do they say? What kind of questions do they ask? How many sentences do they use to answer a question? And so on. Don't ramble on and on, unless you are the lecturer, and even then, rambling should be replaced with more efficient communication. Remember people want to talk more than they want to listen. And people love a good listener!
Then practice. Taking a class is a good place to get some practice.
Live well, love deep and do good.
2007-06-12 10:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by gentlesoul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was shy as a child, no one who knows me now would ever guess that though. I remember forcing myself to be friendly and polite. I remember that it felt almost crippling to go out of my way to speak to someone I didn't really know.
You have to swallow your fear and go for it. Force yourself to be friendly. Speak to people as you would want to be spoken to. As you continue to do it on a daily basis, your shyness will be a thing of the past in no time.
2007-06-11 22:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by Calogne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to practise speech making in front of a mirror, for some time: then, in front of good friends, who should encourageyou, correct you when necessary and give you confidence! Practice will ensure that you get rid of your shyness!
2007-06-11 22:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-21 03:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Luther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for drama or public speaking courses. It helps to keep your fear at bay.
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2007-06-11 22:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋