My fiance & I just had a fight! Last week I went to buy diapers 4 my son, while on it I decided to buy vests,tights & boots for him. Now the boots are small & I asked him to go & exchange them for a bigger size. He is upset that I never told him about the extra things I bought & for the mere fact that I never discussed it with him. What is he talking about? Do I really have to discuss vests & boots that I know my son needs??? & funny enuff is that I did mention it a couple of times that he needs those things but I never really got much 4rm his response, so WHAT????
2007-06-11 20:20:42 · 7 answers · asked by Lesego M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, we do pretty much. Now, if I go shopping to buy clothes, I don't really discuss that with my husband. Although, I tend to talk to him about going clothes shopping just cause he is my best friend. And we go shopping together..;-) We get along great. n
2007-06-11 20:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do discuss everything with my hubby. Usually what I do is I call from the store and say I also found this really cute (insert item here) and if it is ok, or ask his opinion on it. He does the same with me. If you are tight with money, that might be why he got so upset. Either way, if it is stuff your son needs, he needs to be a good father and make sacrifices.
2007-06-12 03:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Chris G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...yes I tell my boyfriend everything and we discuss pretty much everything but I'm sure if I bought a few items of clothing for our child he wouldn't get mad...that is just plain controlling! Be sure he is not going to be so controlling before you marry him...
But yeah, we do discuss what we buy because we share a joint bank account and we need to make sure money is there for important things like rent and bills.
2007-06-12 03:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I do pretty much tell my husband what I buy and he tells me. Since we share a joint checking account, we have to so we can make sure it always has enough money in it for the bills.
2007-06-12 03:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell my guy everything... that matters anywa, im not gonna tell him everytime i sneeze and he doesnt wanna know, your situation is kinda extream! Tell him to lay off, and ask him why he's so insecure about what you do and dont do without him around.
2007-06-12 03:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by sparkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he picks a fight over such a trivial thing, you need to "divorce" him before you even get married.
2007-06-12 03:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to prevent misunderstanding.
2007-06-12 03:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by noble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋