should I listen to my friend about my ex?

Question

I confused about what i'm doing with my love life. I was trying to plan a going away party for my ex he's going to camp this summer. A couple days later my friend gets invited to this party. But I never got invited. I felt bad that I did't get to be there. So I asked my friend if we could plan are own party. so we started planning. then she went to the going away party. Well she was at the party she talked to my ex. she said to him do you want to hang out with her the one you did't invite to the party and he said I don't want to hang out with her. should I be believing my friend or my ex? then later that night my friend said do you want to hang out and chill at my house and I said not today I'm busy. but I really wasn't busy I just needed some time t to think and be alone. someone tell me what is going on? thanks

please someone help me out....

Answer 1

I'm sorry, you must be feeling bad, but rejection doesn't mean you are any less lovable. He's an ex, let it go, you will have other bf's... don't give him a party. He didn't invite you to his. It sounds like you still have feelings for him, do you? If yes, then work on getting through your feelings of feeling rejected and not 'shooting the messenger' (your friend). It seems strange to me that your friend would tell you that your ex said he does not want to hang out with you. I don't know your relationship, so I don't know if she has anything against you. Even if it were true, it was not kind. Your friend knows how you feel about your ex and could have been gentler. Why don't you talk with your friend and clear the air? Friends are important and like I said, you'll have plenty of other bf's. Maybe your friend saw that you were wasting your time and energy on your ex, but didn't know how else to tell you. Be honest with yourself and your friend. Good luck.

Answer 2

i wouldnt act like they dont exist. if they were such good friends or could be labeled as *best friends* then i would say that you should just degrade them to just friends like people who you sit next to in class or pass you in the hallway. a small smile or a nice "hi" wont hurt! if they are staring... say hi! if they give you a dirty look, then you know to be quiet. i might be pretty similiar... when i was younger it was me and my three other best friends... they started to lie to me and having *games* with me, like they knew i cant run up the stairs as fast as them so then they would tease me and get to the top first and not even wait for me. we stopped being best friends, two of them stuck together and the other one and i stuck together and then we broke up, so i just made new best friends and i kept my old ones as just friends so i would still talk and everything but maybe not as personal as before.

Answer 3

To much "he said she said". Drop the ex and move on to greener pastures, your getting played...

Answer 4

I think they're both making a fool of you. Move on and leave them both you deserve better than this.

Answer 5

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