Three days ago my ex bf who I broke up with 2 days ago and am living with had got into a fight.I splashed his face with some water in the car later after he called me a ***** in front of his friends and laughed about it.When I splashed water in his face he told me to get out of his car so I opened the door and he begun driving real fast while I was trying to hold the door open and he slammed on the breaks while the seat belt yanked real hard on my 5 month pregi tummy.The second he stop the car he got the water bottle and poured the water on my head soaking my body so I got out of the car after midnight walking in the dark wet and cold.Later afteR I got back into the car we were on the freeway and I was so angry at what he did to me and the baby I slapped his face.He decided to try and scare me by swerving the truck left to right with real sharp turns hurting my tummy again with the seat belt.After a huge shipping truck rides past us honking at us.I break up with him the next day.
2007-06-11 19:57:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not only abuse it's crazy.You better get far away from this guy.you also need to see a doctor you could have problems with your baby from all that trauma he caused that night.Stress is not a good thing to be under when you are pregnant.He does not care about you so, how do you think he will treat your child.There is a law against abuse during pregnancy You should talk to a police officer.
2007-06-11 20:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpion2Tame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If being abused or any case, the youngster cant be raised in a competent environment if pressure or conflict is in that abode. So having a baby can and could no longer make a relationship paintings neither is it going to help the youngster any to be raised in that environment. Ohio regulation states that by even yelling at an enhanced 1/2 is considered psychological abuse so it falls into an similar type as if being fiscally abused. convinced it would want to be considered for grounds for divorce. i do not approve of the having the flexibility to pass to penal complicated for yelling at your better 1/2. i have self belief Ohio regulation makers took that slightly a methods.
2016-11-23 13:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The use of any word that belittles you is abuse. That he poured water all over you and tlod you to get out of a car is abuse. That he sped off hoping to hurt you in some way or another is abuse, and you missy have to stay as far away from him as possible.You need to stay with somebody who can help you because in your state you ARE NOT to have any stress NOR are you to have any pressure placed on your belly. The last thing you want is a miscarriage because some childish, violent BOZO couldnt control his temper.
It sounds like he cannot control himself, what is stopping him from hitting you in the belly...if he hasnt already done that? That means you and your child are in danger. A slap of any sort is abuse..I don't care how lightly he might have hit or pushed you. THE FACT IS HE THINKS LITTLE OF YOU!
For your sake, get a restraining order against him. He might come after you, promising you he will change, telling you its for the baby, talking about he loves you..blah blah blah....
DONT DO IT!!! IF HE DID IT ONCE HE CAN AND MOST PROBABLY WILL DO IT AGAIN!!
He's a freakin wimp! He won't beat up on a guy..
Babies like him can't seem to be by themselves...and nobody really wants them either.
STAY AWAY FROM HIM...or anyone else who thinks nothing of you for that matter!
2007-06-11 20:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lil' Mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT IS ABUSE.
I have a feeling that you are also a hotheaded person,but since you are pregnant,if I were you I'd go get checked out because this may have caused harm to the baby.
Stay away from him for awhile.
I was in a relationship like this for two years and it NEVER got better.
Think of the child for now,and get space between you.If your both young and immature,go to a trusted parent or therapist for advice..
2007-06-11 20:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL YES, if he is the baby father he really needs to grow up and you need to stay away for the safety of the baby and YOU you have to be a parent now and just stop and think if this was happening to my daughter what should I tell her to do, you sound young so really think about the 2 lives you now have to care for for a really long time, grow up too its not just you anymore
2007-06-11 20:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was abuse. But it was abuse on both parts. It sounds like you kept escalating the situation (the slapping, the water splashing in his face). It also sounds like he was a 'rage driver' and took his rage out on you and your baby. You both have some growing up to do.
2007-06-11 20:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's abusive and immature, with both people to blame. Protect yourself and the baby, by staying away and growing up. Maybe one of these days, daddy to be will grow up as well. Sounds like you two are like oil and water.
2007-06-11 20:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Tikled_Ivory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's completely abusive. Are you still living there? You need to get out. He could have killed you driving like that on the freeway. I suggest a restraining order.
2007-06-11 20:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! That is abuse. Glad you got out of the relationship and I hope the baby is alright. He obviously has to be in control and has to have the last word. n
2007-06-11 20:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally abusive.. You just saved both ur life and ur baby's life by breaking up with him.. Dont do anything while ur in the car with him again.. He is retarded.. And also dont even think about gettin back together with him again!
2007-06-11 20:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by Tired 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋