what kind of things makes you think a guy (whom you kinda know but not that well...talked a few times) is a player? and do you like players, or is it a dealbreaker?
i'm afraid this girl is gonna think i'm a player. but i like her. i'm not really, not much, but i dont want it to seem that way.
2007-06-11 19:50:12 · 12 answers · asked by a b 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm worried cuz, for example, i dont feel nervous around her, but she seems nervous around me.
and also, we're facebook friends and most of my "wall" is girls asking me to hang out. some are just friends, some aren't.
2007-06-11 19:52:58 · update #1
i have 2-3 of those in the quiz. ****.
2007-06-11 20:04:32 · update #2
If you are known for flirting with a lot of girls and then trying to say they're just your friends, if the majority of your calls/texts/emails are from girls who you've hooked up with or are trying to hook up with you, and if you've told this girl lies to make it seem like you have less females as friends than you really do, she's gonna think you're a player.
Most of the girls/women I know won't date a player. It's like setting yourself up for heartbreak.
If you REALLY like this girl, you'll have to let your other female friends know that they'll have to give you some room. Those who really are just friends will think it's sweet that you're trying to spend time with this girl. Some girls may try and screw things up for you, and those are the girls who like you but didn't tell you. Let them know you're interested in someone else. Also, when you're out with this girl, behave in way that shows you care about her. Don't hug up on every other girl you see, if your phone rings 20 times an hour then turn it off, if you run into your friends then introduce her. Basically, treat her with respect. :)
Good luck :)
2007-06-11 20:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by 1M9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want her to know that u like her and not alot of other girls (player) than u will pay the most attention to her and u wont flirt with ne other girls even shes not around because then they(the other girls) might think its ok to flirt all the time even if its infront of "her"! which is not good.
could you be a player???
1. i never commit to a date more than a few hours in advance
2.ive hooked up with my exs best friend
3. ......and her sister
4. i never text a girl back right away- i play hard to get
5. i sometimes give girls the wrong number-on purpose
6. i have girls numbers in my cell that i havent called in over three months
now if u have more than 2 that u have done it could be about time for you to focus more on you than ur game!
because no girls dont like players unless they are a sl*t because they like to feel special to u like u are there world to them and the only one u want!
hope this helps
2007-06-11 20:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by minnesota sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they tell u that ur hot (not beautiful or pretty), and that ur the only one he'd say that to, and then he already told the same thing to a bunch of other girls. no, i don't usually like players. but theres a difference in being a player and just having a lot of friends that are girls.
2007-06-12 00:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by George_Weasleys_Prankster_Pal!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you talk... how you look at other girls and how you act... pretty much seals it... It doesn't matter whether you are cute or not, and no I don't like players. And the fact that you say you're not really... and then not much... already throws me off... So, if you wanna fool her, start from there.
2007-06-11 20:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy who plays around with your head your heart your mind your body...AND everyone elses ..he plays but never gets serious....doesn't keep it real...isn't honest.. he's the one that says "I never meant to hurt you" but he never tried not to either..he did by never MEANING anything..I wouldn't want to seriously fall for a player .. .. but i also think at some point in life everybody is a player to a degree..but things change and people change..at some point we all fall hard and either change our ways or get a taste of our own medicine and get played ..the old"what comes around goes around"and then start to rethink our ways...eventually every player plays the fool
2007-06-11 20:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by BackwoodsBarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A player, to me, is someone who flirts with and/or has sex with multiple people but never commits to anyone. And no, I'd never want to be with someone like that.
2007-06-11 19:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by LivingDeadKat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur SO worried about what ONE girl thinks....trust me ur not a player
2007-06-11 20:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any such factor as a 'lady participant' there are 2 basic approaches to describe this phenomenon; specifically, SL.UT and WHORE. now: A Whore is somebody who sleeps around with everybody. A Sl.ut is somebody who sleeps around with everybody yet you.
2016-10-09 01:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by debruyne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy. dates to many girls at a young age.
2007-06-11 19:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh girls like players
2007-06-11 19:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋