A friend with a lust problem.?

Question

I am a Christian. And i know this girl who has lust problems and porn problems. Looking at men alot, lustful.

What do i do to help her? Chrsitians I need help.

and no shes not happy. she even told me shes not.

Answer 1

First, she needs to understand it is sin. Hopefully this will lead to salvation. And if truly saved, she should change, if she wants to.
If she is a Christian this verse should help.
Mt 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. This applies to women looking at men, too.

Answer 2

She desires Jesus. She turns into pleased with Jesus in her life, and the lust section is basically no longer a problam the closer she is to Jesus Lust isn't any doubt one among the 7 deadly sins, so the reason she is gloomy is becuase of the lust.

Answer 3

Prop her up whenever you can. Addictions can be an anchor so don't let her drown. Always keep her in your prayers and ask for prayer at church for an unspoken problem that your friend has. I read your myspace intro and you sound like the kind of girl who can influence your friend and keep her on the straight and narrow. There are counselors at your church?? maybe you could ask them for help. Don't be discouraged with the non-Christians who answer your question with their jilted view of life, good luck and God bless.

Answer 4

How else is she going to be fruitful and multiply if she doesn't look at prospective baby makers in a realm of desire.

What, you expect to her not desire her husband!

The day MEN stop looking at YOU with LUST is the day YOU stop being a WOMAN

It basically means you've become man and the average hetero no longer finds you cute or desirable or worth making babies with.

Do you LONG for that day when you are NOT LONGER SEXUAL.

Do you LONG for the day when men say, "keep your clothes on I'm not really interested in seeing what YOU have!"

Do you long for the day when NO MAN want's to hold you and kiss you.

Do you long for the day when your husband can't make it happen and says "Sorry, maybe if I can find a copy of Playboy we can try to make another baby, but YOU just aren't doing it for me anymore!"

Congratuations, you've become ASEXUAL at the least.

You are a NON-ENITIY.

You SCARE men away, instead of draw them in.

You become REPULISVE.

Is THAT your goal in life!

To be REPULSIVE instead of ATTRACTIVE

You wish to change polarity.

Answer 5

u can fight devil only JESUS can and JESUS will.ask her to hand her life over to JESUS.

get another believer and agree together that GOD protects her and delivers her from the lust of flesh,life and eyes and makes her child of GOD and gives her a new life with JESUS.

Matthew 18:19[kjv]Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.

JESUS loves you.Have u recieved JESUS for the forgiveness of your sins?

John 3:16[kjv] For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

so when we believe in JESUS we have eternal life.JESUS lived a sinless life and gave up his life as a sacrifice so we can be sin free. Ask JESUS to come into your heart and forgive ur sins and cleanse ur past with the blood JESUS shed on the cross.

With a simple prayer like above u can be saved.JESUS loves u and wants u to be saved.

Answer 6

This isn't a good place to find answers about anything. Talk to an older lady at your church about your problem.

Answer 7

Leave her alone. She's probably happy. I know I am. And very lustful. And very happy.