My boyfriend loves baseball. But recently, I found out that he met an old girlfriend at one of his games. I couldn't be at the game because we have a baby girl together and it was too cold. Then the other day he told me he wanted to have sex with this girl. But later he told me he just wanted to hurt me. He has a ball tournament this weekend. He says he wants me to go. I know if I don't go, she may go. I feel betrayed. Should I go after what he's done? I feel that if I go it will be as if I'm spying on him. What would you do?
2007-06-11 13:26:02 · 7 answers · asked by squirrelbait 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would pack his stuff up and put it on the lawn . He is a cheater and always will be . If he said that to you then he was thinking about it and that means he would have cheated if he had the opportunity . Nope dont stay with him .I would leave in a heartbeat . good luck .
2007-06-11 13:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he asked you to come then why would you feel like your spying. I would go because he asked and to show support. but i wouldn't let the comment go about him saying he wanted to sleep with her because he wanted to hurt you. I don't believe that at all. someone who really cares about your feelings would never do or say something like that just to get a rise out of you.
2007-06-11 13:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by stacy_branch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better go girl. Have someone to babysit your baby and go with him since he asked you to. You wouldn't like if someone else going with him right?...so you better go cos your man needs a woman beside him to cheer him up on his game. Be his inspiration girl. And don't let the other girl move on to him.
2007-06-11 13:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, and find a better man, respect yourself
2007-06-11 13:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, this sounds like a very immature relationship, why don't you two go to counseling...why would he "want" to hurt you??
2007-06-11 13:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lupita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should deffinetly go, dont give him the chance to talk to her or cheat! otherwise you will make it easy for him.
2007-06-11 13:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
uhhh why did he want to hurt you exactly? because he wants to make sure you're jealous of her?
2007-06-11 13:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋