I fail to understand why all men i fall for find me as a wife material immeditely into the relationship n getting serious on me while failing to give me the enjoyment of courting n dating! Might it be something am doing wrong or something am doing right?
2007-06-11 13:14:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one, you might just be so cool that they know they can't let you get away. two, my guess is however that you give off a domestic vibe--do you cook home-cooked meals? have a warm and inviting home that reminds them of their home as children? are you very traditional in values etc? do you put their needs before yours? a martyr complex--you will take care of them? another possibility: perhaps YOU choose this kind of guy? are you meeting them all in the same place? same church? etc. then again, could be an age thing--alot of more "mature" guys like to settle down. look, men become more consevative as they age--women more radical. so, when you want to explore, they may want stability--back to a domestic bliss. try getting to know men in community classes etc---shows they still are pursuing interests. good luck
2007-06-11 13:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by quiet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first glance people might see this as an arrogant, or ingrateful question, but I think I understand what you mean.
Out of five guys I dated seriously in my life I have received four different marriage proposals (one of which I carried out with and now divorced), and one suggestion for marriage. I finally decided to ask one of the guys who casually suggested that I'd make a good wife for him, why he would even say such a thing.
He told me -- get this - that there are certain women that make good wives, and certain others that just make good flings. To this day I don't know what that means. I also wonder what the motive is behind it. It almost makes you feel convenient, doesn't it? So, from now on, I try to ask why they would think I'd make a good wife. From there, you can see what their intentions are-- if they're sincere, or if they're self-motivated.
2007-06-11 13:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she's like underneath the window dressing. I agree, a woman who knows when to add a bit of naughtiness especially behind closed doors is always a plus. I'm not saying she has to be a nymphomaniac, but just a little playfull in a sexy kind of way. Or maybe dropping little hints here and there that she wants some romancing in the dark.
2016-05-17 21:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be sexier! You're the Madonna figure instead of the whore. You want to have a good balance of both. A lady on the street but a freak in the bed.
2007-06-11 13:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Karoline M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They sound desperate to get married and start a family. How old are you? That might have something to do with it.
2007-06-11 13:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is the common denominator in all of your relationships? you. It's your taste in men. Even if you don't know it. Some women go for alcoholics you go for these no-courtin-marry-me guys.
2007-06-11 13:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by zeroambition 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't quite understand why you're complaining....most women are complaining that guys WON'T get serious or commit. courting and dating are actually pretty stressful...
2007-06-11 13:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by KellyKapowski 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think you're doing something right.
How would you even think that you're doing something wrong. lol.
2007-06-11 13:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by CoorsHeavy™ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Any thing that moves.
2007-06-11 13:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by jacquie 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋