There is one guy in my class who is obviously madly in love with me. He is a pervert and in my view I owe him nothing, though he seems to think that I do. I have tried ignoring him, but he has taken to doing stupid and cruel, abusive things!
I don't want to say exactly what, but lets just say "NOT GOOD"
HELP!!! What do I do?
2007-06-11 13:10:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
slip a note to the teacher/priciple without your name. Tell them what he is doing. ask for their help
2007-06-11 13:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by rebeesuper7 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can tell him you are a lesbian!
Seriously, though, ignoring him WILL work, it just takes time. He is obviously trying to do anything and everything he can to get your attention -- DON'T give it to him!
If he does something abusive towards you, TELL SOMEONE! I don't know how old you all are, but you seem to be young enough that telling a guidance counselor, trusted teacher, or even a parent (yes, a parent, someone who loves and protects you) will stop that crap.
No offense to any guys who read this, but men are like this: even if you are telling them to buzz off, they made you talk to them, and that to them means you must be into them. So if you continue to pay him no attention, do not react to stupid things he does, and report abusive things he does, he will stop.
You have to also ask yourself, would you rather end up raped and dead in a ravine somewhere, or have your parents or counselor help you out? You may say to that, he would never go that far, but thousands of young women's lives end every year in just that manner, by a creepy guy they thought would never go that far. That is something to think about.
2007-06-11 20:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by umkelly08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents or a teacher. This is possibly against the law and he has no right to treat anyone this way. I don't think humiliating him is the right answer, though it would be fun. It may cause him to retaliate and do something even worse than what he has already done. Tell someone, chances are this can't be handled by you alone!
2007-06-11 20:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "I heard very penis is very small. There's no way I'm having anything to do with a guy with a penis as small as yours." Make sure you say this so other people will hear you ... this should shut him up.
2007-06-11 20:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents or your teachers. This is harassment, and he needs to be stopped before he gets worse.
2007-06-11 20:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, you have to publicly humiliate him in class over and over again. Like yell it out so everyone looks at him, he'll be embarassed, trust me
2007-06-11 20:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Hey-man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kick him in the nuts hell get the picture he should never do anything to you period you dont owe him ****
2007-06-11 20:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by gossamer1999g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋