Do I like sex too much?

Question

Everynight I just wish my boyfriend would do me, but he doesn't ever want to. It has been 2 weeks and we have only did it 3 times...

Do I not turn him on? Do I expect too much? Is it normal that he is not so much into sex, specially since he is a guy..?

Answer 1

Everyone one is different, but the average for a young couple is three or four times a week. He may have low self esteem or low hormones. He may feel threatened, a type of psychic impotence. He may need counseling (sex) or a physical. Ask him what he thinks. And no, it's not normal.

Answer 2

Try spicing things up. Wear sexy clothes, make him dinner and wear only your bathrobe, then slip it off when you serve him. Try different things. I would think this is not to normal, due to the guys I dated, wanted sex 24/7. Maybe, there is something else that's turning him on, like Internet sex, or magazines. Sit down and have a talk to with him. You, ask these same questions to him. I hope it gets better for you. If things don't change, I would really recommend you think about, if this is what you want. Your not expecting to much, it's normal. He might also have a low sex drive, but doubt that highly. since this is your boyfriend you both should be enjoying each other tremendously. Remember sex is on a mans mind 99.9% of the time.

Answer 3

Has it always been this way with him??? If so then maybe he is not as sexual of a person as you are and 3x in two weeks is sufficient for him, however if you guys used to do it all of the time and it went to this then yes I would say you should be concerned....has he started new medication???? Is is possible that there is someone else??? I you guys did it alot before and not now there IS a reason that you are not now and you NEED to figure out what and why you are not.

Answer 4

He should be doing you everyday, every night and eight times on the weekend.
Seriously, though, sit down with him and talk. Let him know how you feel to include your desires, urges, and needs. Do not expect it every night, but I think 3 times in two weeks is not enough. Is he stressed out from his job? Is he going through any emotional changes? What was your sex life one month ago? Two months ago? One year ago? Is 3 times every two weeks normal? Maybe you need to take charge and DO HIM.

Answer 5

I don't think you're expecting too much. I'm the same way. I like at least 9 - 10 times a week.

The real question is why he doesn't want more. Ask him about it.

Answer 6

Everybody is differant. Maybe he wants sex to be his idea and not yours for a change. Its something you have to work out together. Some people just have differant sex drives. It is possible that he isnt turned on but you have to communicate and see where the problem is.

Answer 7

I've got some hard news for you.

Unless you are over the age of 50, the truth is that he just isnt into you. No, you do not turn him on.

That doesnt mean that there is anything wrong with you or him. Your chemistry just isnt right. Maybe you can stay friends, and probably should.

But if you think hes going to change or (Yikes) that you are going to change him, all you are doing is setting yourself up for disappointment.

Answer 8

everynight is a good amount, its not too much. maybe he is just lazy and tired. now if its like 5 times a day everyday, then ya he will probably get tired.

Answer 9

What is too much sex? Who defines that.
I don't think your desire is abnormal. It doesn't necessarily mean that your boyfriend doesn't like sex. Does he have a lot of stress at school/work, is he on anti-depressants?
These could be reasons.
I would tell him about how you feel though, it is important to talk about it.

Answer 10

Good God,
I thought we were having a serious conversation. Maybe he's a fag. When I was ur age I would have made you beg me 2 stop b/cause you were raw. Can't say this problem ever popped up for me or my friends.... Call me

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