i have been going out with this guy for like 3 months and we have done every thing but sex so i am like really into him... but there is another guy and i have known him for 3 weeks and i really like him so i was at his house and we were just hanging out and then we started to make out then with out me realizing i was giving him oral!! i really like him but i have a boyfriend and i dont want to break up with him cuz i love him but i still like the other guy. but i dont want to keep it behind his back because i have been with him for so long and i dont want to tell him because it will hurt him more than anything because he has had this happen to him before.
2007-06-11 07:33:10 · 14 answers · asked by *choke down smoke* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like your not really "into" your boyfriend at all. I really hope you like this new guy because the right thing to do would be to tell your boyfriend, unless you consider lying and cheating to be part of a normal relationship, and be prepared for him to leave. If you found it that easy to cheat on him then what will ever stop you in the future ?? How would you feel if he gave another girl oral and kept secrets from you ??
2007-06-11 07:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by clint m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not ready to be in a relationship if you're willing to give a random friend of your brothers oral whilst being in a relationship. Tell your boyfriend, see what he has to say, go from there.
2016-05-17 09:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think firstly you need to decide who you like better. If you like this other guy more, well then your boyfriend will have to deal with that, and you could maybe try and tell him nicely?
If you decide you want to stick with your boyfriend, you have a choice. If there is no way he is going to find out, then perhaps don't tell him. You will only be doing it to clear your conscience, and it's hardly going to solve anything. If there's even the slightest possibility he will find out though, you should probably be the one to tell him, as he will respect you a whole load more. Hopefully.
Good luck.
2007-06-11 07:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by JustDon'tAsk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're just sitting there on the couch with another guy, minding your own business, & the next thing you know woops, you've accidently given him a bjob.
Boy, don't you hate it when that happens?
Have you no self-control? Sorry kid but until you get some self control don't expect to keep any boyfriends.
2007-06-11 07:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...you love the boyfriend yet cheated on him? I'm sorry, but you and your boyfriend shouldnt be together. If you truly love him, you will tell him of your mistake- break it off with the guy you like- and hope your boyfriend forgives you. If he doesnt, he's better off. If he does, you got lucky and he's a keeper....
Do NOT EVER do that again. It makes you untruthful & not loyal. I wouldnt want to be with a person like that.
2007-06-11 07:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months and 3 weeks....honey, you haven't been with either boy "for a long time"....
BTW, you just don't magically give other guys oral...you should have that condition checked out.
2007-06-11 07:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Chris O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could find a woman who when we're making out all of a sudden finds herself sucking my d.i.c.k.!I think most guys would agree,that would be awesome!But any way,don't worry about it.It's not like your married,you've only been going out with your boyfriend for 3 months,and it was just some head,not all out sex.And even if it was like that,so what?Have fun,enjoy life,but use protection.
2007-06-11 07:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'd rather have my gf fcuk a guy than blow him that mean u did that than went kissed your bf in the mouth so u made ur bf suck dcik
2007-06-11 07:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by wtf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up: Polyamory on wikipedia
2007-06-11 07:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you give oral without realizing it? go play in traffic
2007-06-11 07:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋