I'm a male, standing 6'3 and a 135lbs, my girlfriend is 5'2 and 263lbs. People always make fun of us.

Question

Should i break up with her not because of that but the simple fact is that she is always hungry and angry when she don't get her way. She beats me sometime in front her family. Should i find another lady? I like big women. Please help

Answer 1

Stay,

Answer 2

Ok first of all, you didn't make it clear if the teasing makes you uncomfortable. Second, why in the world would you want to be with a girl that hits you? I think it goes both ways. A man should not hit a woman and a woman should not hit a man. It is degrading and hurts the realtionship permanently. I think you should find another lady, or give her an ultimatum. Tell her that you care (if you do) and you need her to respect you. Hun, last of all... I think it is totally awesome that you like big women... and believe me, there are a lot of them out there! I hope you get the answers that you are looking for.

Answer 3

You should break up, because you deserve someone that loves you and respects you, regardless of what size she may be.

Why would you stay in an unhealthy relationship, when she has demonstrated to you, she is just plain mean?

If it bothers you, that people make fun of you, you may have to reconsider your sizes in women.

When you are with someone you have to see beyond their outer beauty, and not care what others think.

You also have to consider, 135lbs, and 6'3 is not what some women might find themselves attracted to. Building some muscles might help.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Hi,there is nothing wrong with liking big woman.I would ditch the one you are with no one as the right to hit another person.
I am sure you will find a nice person size is of no importence.
Good Luck

Answer 5

With all that you have I would say if you love her stay.. but NO if she is beating you and always angry. Go hunting some more. There are so many happy people out there why put up with that for the rest of you life..

Good hunting.

Answer 6

I think you should confront her how you feel about the situation first. If she's not willing to change her behavior then that's the time thinking of breaking up with her. Why would you stay with someone who's just selfish. Just because of the physical attraction? I don't think so. C'mon, you can do better than that.

Answer 7

when u like big women then why did u go for her.. and take whatever she does as stupid?
i dont understand..whatever u said is somethign normal..
if u really like her or love her u wont listen to people..
and u will love the way she gets angry if not everytime atleast soemtimes..

if u find soo much faults of her.. u better leave her b4 u hurt her too much

Answer 8

Hey there are plenty of nice big women out there. You could have your pick of them. No one deserves to be beat in any way, shape or form. You should still have pride in yourself. When someone beats you down physically or mentally it's abuse. You deserve better than that.

Answer 9

I think she has a few issues she has to come to terms with. It's seems like food is her comfort. beating on you in front of her family is just childish. In your question you didn't mention how you feel about her. So it seems like you should move on. Big women are just as great as skinny.

Answer 10

If you're thinking of breaking up with her over this then why did you get together in the first place? There must have been something about her that made you overlook the superficial.

Answer 11

No matter what size they are, find someone who makes you feel good on the inside. If you like "big girls", that's fine. Nothing is wrong with that. Just make sure they respect you and your family.