I've been hanging out with a guy for a couple of weeks who says I'm cute and funny, and better to hang out with than his other friends. We talk every day, we've been to the movies, had lunch by the river, walked around the city, he came to the pub with me n my friends etc...
He knows I dont hook up or sleep around, and he says thats what he likes about me. He was meant to meet me at the pub last night but there was a 2 hr line to get in when he go there so he said he was goin to another place with his bro, but wanted me to go too and said i could sleep at his place. I didn't go. His brother told me he speaks very highly of me.
We always joke about giving each other massages as compensation for random insults, but tonight he went that step further and actually organised for me to come over to give me a massage in a few days.
One of my guy friends who doesnt even know the guy says he could be just after a hook up... is this true? I thought he really liked me?
Dont tell me 2 ask
2007-06-11 04:59:01 · 10 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds more like a relationship is developing. If a guy wanted to just hook up with you, he wouldn't go through the trouble of taking you to the movies or having lunch with you in a park or something.
2007-06-11 05:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to know except by checking it out. You will be able to tell by the way he acts when he gets there. But asking for a massage sounds like he wants more than you might want to give. But because you have been flirting about this, he probably doesn't know what you are really about... you are sending mixed messages. He may be confused. He may be willing to go either direction depending on which way you want to go. I would say continue in this friendship, but go slow and see what he really wants... and see what you want to, then decide.
2007-06-11 05:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this guy you owe it to yourself to find out how much he likes you back. I would go to this "date" with a plan in your head about how far you will let it go. I wouldn't say he is definetly after just a hook up, but he is a guy with needs, and it sounds like he's into you, which means he will let it go as far as you will. So go and show him you're into him, and why he should be into you, but I wouldn't let it go too far, b/c then your "i don't hook up or sleep around" profession will seem like just a line and he'll lose respect for you and may see it as just a hook up. You need to get to know him and vise versa, and show him you are girlfriend material or whatever you are looking for! Good Luck
2007-06-11 05:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by cattier23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lot of work for a hook up.
Though since the fact you don't give it up being what he likes about you, then don't tear off his clothes and pounce on him for giving you a little shoulder rub.
He probably does have the hots for you, but, if the things you said are accurate, then he's actually angling for the "Get to know her before I stick her feet behind her ears" approach. Which is a good thing.
2007-06-11 05:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by lystrayel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it almost sounds to me that the time that you've been spending with each other is what couples do when they are dating.
so are you just instrested in being friends with him? or would you be willing for something more? and i'm not saying hook up with him or anything like that. but maybe try a relationship first.
2007-06-11 05:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by asguard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit overanalyzing it. Just see what happens. If it feels like a hook up don't sleep with him.
2007-06-11 05:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what i really think so he wants u to be in his bed.. massage is always very intimate and leds to sex.. so think better of what u want to do.. else forget him.. there r lots of fishes in the sea.. but almost 90% wants sex in any relatuonship..
so be careful if u dont want one..
ur guys is asweet talker i think so.. so beware
2007-06-11 05:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by virgogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u never really know because guys lie all the time and tell girls what they wanna hear which makes us suspicious of ALL guys. just get to know him deeper ask about his past relationships and just listen to him talk. if u listen u'll learn alot
2007-06-11 05:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by ch@L@nt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think, a guy just trying to get into your pants would never work that hard
2007-06-11 05:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by lamontis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer and star
2016-05-17 08:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋