how do you know if your man is cheating?

Answer 1

when me and my husband first started dating he cheated on me, at first i was clueless and then little things started adding up. for instance he no longer wanted sex and if he did he was trying all these funky positions, he came straight home from work and showered and dressed up and went straight to town to get a coke and when he was gone for thirty minutes i would ask where he was and he would say oh i bumped into so and so....then he would try to stay away from me or try to start fights with me over nothing so he could have a reason to leave..... i found condoms, he cared more about how he looked, etc....... although this was 15 years ago i will never forget that feeling and if iever felt it again i would leave him in a second

Answer 2

Loss of Sex Drive
Unless there is another cause of stress (i.e., difficult assignment at work), then a sudden loss of interest in sex may indicate your loved one is getting it elsewhere.
Defensiveness
A cheating partner often feels bad deep down and this guilt can come out via defensiveness or blame placed on you. Be on the look out for signs of aggressiveness from your partner.

Host of Excuses
They may seem cliche, but comments about needing to work late, having to take a business trip, or needing to unexpectedly meet with a client, can all be signs of cheating.

Telephone Hang-Ups
If your partner's new liaison is bold enough to call your home number, he or she may hang up if you answer, instead of your partner
Gifts Out of Nowhere
Besides defensiveness, your cheating partner may try to throw you off track by being extra nice. Flowers, chocolate, and other gifts, especially if they are typically uncommon, could be a sign of infidelity.

Answer 3

cheating warning signs:

-Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)

- he stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

-Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

- He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

- He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

- he carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

- Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

- Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

-He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.

- Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"

- Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

- Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.

- Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

- He fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

- He suddenly wants more sex, more often.

- Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

- Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

- You find out by accident he took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.


-Has a sudden preoccupation with his appearance.

-Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

- Hisclothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

-he seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.

- You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

- He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

-Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

- He has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

- he uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

-Atypical erratic behavior.

- He sneaks out of the house.

-He tells you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

-The telltale signs of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.

Answer 4

If he starts to do things differently, making excuses for spending time with you. Another give away is how he is romantically. If all of a sudden there is a huge change in ways he used to be romantic he is cheating. If all of a sudden you start to get a lot of gifts out of the blue it could be his guilt and he is trying to hide it. Lastly look in his eyes and ask him if he loves you. His eyes will say what his lips may not. I hope this helps.

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Answer 5

Gee you guys do not get tired of addressing this million dollar question lol...A woman knows especially if you are in a long term relationship..and you start learning, adapting and mentally record his routines.

The moment you notice a change in his routine regardless what he tells you..and how he acts..that is your Q to investigate..

When my man starts telling me that he is going to take a ride to go here or there on a Sunday..When I know he rather stay home chill..hang with me, and you wonder "on a Sunday hmmmm" and you are not invited hahaha yeah that is my Q to look into that "ride" he is taking.

Get ready to hear his stories of this and that went wrong, or he is catering to me like I am on my death bed. Girlfriend yes busted him...and the irony of it all is that THEY ARE GOING TO LIE TO YOUR FACE EVEN WITH THE EVIDENCE IN YOUR HANDS. Hopefully your man is different and he will stand up to the plate, i know there is no such thing...Men will never give up the truth..no matter what! even if you catch him in bed with another woman.

Answer 6

You prove that he is cheating. Admission. Girl's underwear in his car. Catch him in the act.

In any case, there is a reason you are asking this. What is that reason? Examine that reason. Question yourself, and him, about that reason. You'll find your answer. If nothing else, perhaps it is time to try out marriage counseling. If you are having problems, ask him to go. If he refuses, then go yourself. It will open your eyes.

Good luck!

Answer 7

can i put in a guy's perspective

honestly speaking, i haven't ever cheated (cuz i've never had a girlfriend booo)

but if i really were to cheat (god strike me dead if that happends), i probably would...
1. spend less and less time around my girlfriend
2. avoid answering call/emails/letters
3. not be able to look her in the eye when we're talking

hope i helped, and hope you have good luck in your relationship

Answer 8

If you have to ask this questions, then you probably already know. You just need visible proof. Unfortunately, womens intuition does not work all the time, yet most/majority of the time.

Answer 9

always dumb excuses when he doesnt answer the phone. either more quiet. trying to pick fights so he doenst have to deal with you for a day or two.
trying to make you feel bad about things.
and, after he's with her, he will be nicer to you as a way of trying to wash away the guilt with an expensive gift or details that he doesnt often do

Answer 10

Wen he spends a lot of time without u. Wen he gives reasons like sorry im busy today. Wen he dsnt look at u with dat love in his eyes he had b4. Wen he is always trying to find faults in u