2007-06-11 04:15:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dumb him
2007-06-11 04:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him "It's over." You can also say, if you choose, that no amount of love that you feel can make up for a lack of loyalty and trust.
Then, go home, cry for a day or two, and start getting busy. If you can do it, going out with friends would be best, but, if you're still, too hurt, take a class, get a job (NOT in a public spot where he could come around) or volunteer in places where he's not likely to turn up. Serve food to the hungry, do data entry for Habitat or an animal shelter, sort and display clothes for the thrift shop, go to the hospital and rock sick or abandoned babies.
If you can keep your mouth shut and not tell anyone for at least two years, you can have real revenge. Go to a hardware store and buy a screw. Put it in a small mailing envelope and get someone he doesn't know, preferably a stranger to you, too, to write his address. Mail it to him with no return address. He'll go nuts trying to figure out why anyone would send him this hardware and, if he figures it out, wondering which person he's s***d did it.
The reason for silence is that the story is just too good. You tell someone and pretty soon everyone is talking about how smart you are and laughing at him and, then, someone will let it slip to him.
2007-06-11 04:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is right under your nose. dump him. why should you love a person who isnt loyal to you? you deserve better. yeah sure YOU might love him loads, but if he loved u JUST as much he wouldnt have cheated on u so many times. can't u see that the relatuonship u have now isnt worth it at all.. do u honestly thinks he loves u just as much?
im not trying to make u miserable but jus trying to make u aware of what is going on. u shouldnt go through all this. dont worry theres still more fish in the sea. this guy just isnt the one for u. sometimes, when u least expect it, the right guy comes right out of the blue
hope this helps.
2007-06-11 04:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't pay him back. You break up with him and live your life as if he doesn't exist. To do anything for revenge will just make you look the part of a psycho chick, and it will end up not only making you look bad to him but everyone he tells about what you did, and he WILL tell everyone he knows about the psycho ex, and make sure he leaves out what HE did. Cheaters are liars. Get away from him and put thoughts of revenge aside.
2007-06-11 04:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not let it get to the 'several times' stage. I would simply walk away from him and the relationship on the first time he cheated and never look back. Alternatively, castration is good! LOL!!! Or even just tell his current g/f what a tart he is!
2007-06-11 04:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Strawberry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You pay him back moving on and finding someone who will treat you better and not cheat on you! Don't stoop to his level by trying to get revenge on him ...you are a better person than he is! The fact that you are moving on and choosing a better life for yourself is revenge enough!!
2007-06-11 04:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't "pay him back" i'd just break up with him and move on with my life like an adult. He did a horrible thing but you need to be the mature one and just ignore him.... its time to be the bigger person. Dump him and forget about him.
2007-06-11 04:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him sweety if he treats you wrong then he doesn't deserve you and you deserve way better....don't sell yourself short and don't stoop to his level by plotting revenge as good as it would feel just move on and live your life to the fullest because two wrongs don't make a right.
2007-06-11 04:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by csrdz06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find someone who treats you with respect and get out of the relationship with this bozo. Let him cheat on someone else rather then look to get even.
2007-06-11 04:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him. if you "get back at him", then you're no better than the guy cheating on you. just find someone who actually respects and loves you, and go on with your life.
that would be revenge enough, i think...
2007-06-11 04:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by Han 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You move on. You make a successful life for yourself without him, whether alone or with another guy. Clean break from him, and don't look back.
Remember, success is the ultimate revenge.
2007-06-11 04:18:03 · answer #11 · answered by CaptDare 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋