2007-06-10 18:22:31 · 18 answers · asked by 6th Finger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you vote for a man for President who has had three divorces?
2007-06-10 18:37:53 · update #1
A person with one divorce might be blameless.
A person with two divorces might have poor judgment.
Three divorces indicate persistent bad habits.
And that goes for males or females.
Doc
2007-06-10 18:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon why he was divorced.
People divorce for many different reasons.
For 3 divorces- the reasons are not very encouraging.
> He cheats
>He's a butt-head in a relationship ( but fine and dandy BEFORE the deal is sealed)
> He has a habit that is a deal breaker. (substance abuse, gambling, pedophile in training, cross-dresser) And the habit does not come 'out' unless you have lived with him for a while.
The only "not too horrible" reason is that he is really bad at finding a person to be a mate with.
Certain personalities are good matches with other personalities- but we do not always WANT to be with the person who is best for us. We have an ideal for whatever reasons- and we go for that ideal- but they are just not a good match.
some people take a while to figure out 'What is good for them".
The only OTHER reason is that is he does not know how to compromise and repair the relationship after a fight. He may be a bad communicator. Are his parent's divorced? He may have "learned" from early life expediences that divorce is how you solve a problem in a relationship- and working it out is useless.
2007-06-11 01:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by There you are∫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, were the divorces because he cheated? If so, then no. (I know that's a no brainer, but...)
You definitely should see the whys of the divorces to decide on trust. HE may have made bad choices.
2007-06-11 01:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Robb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. There is a reason he can't follow through with a woman. He runs when their is a problem, he can't face her when a problem hits. Easier to run than to face the truth. I would not trust a man with that history period. I would tell this guy you will consider a long term relationship if he goes to counseling with you.
2007-06-11 01:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ehh, well i guess but to a point. first i would try to figure out why the divorces occurred in the first place, there could possibly be a problem with the person or maybe the marriages just didn't work out.
2007-06-11 01:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by midnightv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that depends on what cause the divorces. was it because of cheating? or because the flame/love was just gone...
if its the later, he should be trustworthy... if its the first, then hes probably not
2007-06-11 01:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone married that many times does not value the sanctity of marriage. Unless it was the wives fault everytime, and figure the odds of that.
2007-06-11 01:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by mommyof4 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is a great guy who really loves her than I would say -YES- As I look at that just meens that the guy hasn't found the right ----->Person/Partner<----- yet.
2007-06-11 01:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Redfawn789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, thats a sign that he changes women like he changes clothes hes always thinking the grass is greener on the other side
2007-06-11 01:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends. if the guy cheated on his last 3 divorces, then it's gonna happen again. i mean, c'mon if he cheated on his last 3 ex's it's gonna happen again. maybe not soon, but it will. guaranteed.
2007-06-11 01:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by Arnie C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋