I can't get over him. he's in love with another girl. I'm hearthbroken. How can I survive this pain..?
Thank you.
2007-06-10 18:02:28 · 17 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By getting on with your life, and finding another man who will give you the love and respect you so surely deserve. I'm so very sorry you're heartbroken. The loss will be his, NOT YOURS, as you ARE NOT to be blamed. Personally, I hope that bloke suffers merrcilessly for what he did to you.
2007-06-10 18:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A great way to get your ex back is https://tr.im/Pl0eK
They might realize they need you and come crawling back!
If you do get back together, don't let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you're both going to make it right this time.
2015-02-02 13:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Take interest in other boys. He wont be the only one. Look for a new one that will make you feel better then your Ex made you feel.
2. Hang out with friends. Don't sit at home and mourn. Call friends or go hang out with them. It will show him that your strong and sexy and it'll get your mind off him.
3.Enlist the help of others. Turn to a trustworthy friend that knows how to keep a secret. Letting your feelings out to someone gets rid of extra stress and emotion. This person can make you feel better.
4.Clear everything out of your life that reminds you of him. Pictures, songs, clothing articles, other personal items; everything must go.
5.Commit completely to getting over him. If you allow yourself to have doubts, or be weak, it will drag on and on. Repeat over and over to yourself; I don't need him.
6.Get out and meet people. If possible, try to meet another special someone. Having a new man in your life is the best way to forget about someone. Not only will they keep you busy, they'll put in your mind all the good things your ex never did, or the bad things your ex did but your new boyfriend doesn't.
7.Hang out with your girlfriends as much as possible. They'll help you get through it, listen to you rant, keep your mind off things, and eat ice cream with you. Plus, you'll remember how much you like them all, and how fun they are.
8.Write 20 or more of your good qualities and keep reading them over and over, adding as you think of some. It's important to remember that you are a beautiful, amazing person and you will find love again.
Trust me it will work and just make your self a better-sexier-happier person now that he's gone and make him jealose!
2007-06-10 18:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by ~Paynt~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not look at it as heartbroken, look at it as an experience, and knowing that when you get another guy you will not make the same mistake with him as you did with your x, it will take a while to get over him, but start dating, go out to social affairs and meek people, just do not get serious because you might be on the rebound.
2007-06-10 18:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey!I feel so bad for you!I have been going through the same thing, except there isn't another girl involved. . .aAll I've been doing is talking to friends about him, and working on a friendship with him.The number one thing I missed from him was being able to talk to him.Maybe you should just try being his friend for a while.Hopefully, through it all, he'll fall back in love with you, and realize how much he missed you!.Hold your head up high!I hope this helps!
2007-06-10 18:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in your shoes and let me say it is terrible and you feel the pain will never end. but eventually the pain will die off and you will start feeling good again. i suggest not taking it personally ( as though something is wrong with YOU and thats why he got with her ) and try to stay postive think of postive good thigns about yourself, and remember that becuase one guy picked another girl does not make you any less beautiful, smart, funny attractive, etc... than you were before.
2007-06-10 18:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it normal to feel as you do, this person was someone that
you loved. but now you need to move forward not backward
he has move on it time for you to do the same. take baby
steps it will get easier but you have to make the first step,
start doing things that will keep you busy, go out with friends,
you need to start to look at life in the present, he your past
now time to look at the present and the future. good luck
to you.
2007-06-10 18:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you shouldnt be really emotional about it since he seems to be over you already and getting a new girl. you should be strong and try not to think about it. hang out with your friends and just try having fun, also find a new guy instead so you can just talk to someone and get over him. dont show that your weak because it probably wont even matter to him.
2007-06-10 18:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Msjenniee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probaley dosen,t seem like you will get through this, the only thing that help,s is time and believe it or not the pain will lessen with time, we all experience heartbreak at one time or another and there,s really nothing we can do about it, i,ve often wondered how we could hurt so bad without actually dying but, time heals!
2007-06-10 18:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys still friends? If so just tell him how you feel. Or just start hanging out with your friends and pre-occupy yourself with something else. You will get over him eventually, especially when you start dating other people.
2007-06-10 18:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋