help with suicide!!!?

Question

I really hate to admit, but I am suicidal. Lately i have been having thoughts, I dont know why, but its nothing bad yet (as in, its nothing to worry about now) I want to know what I can do before this becomes a serious problem. As I said, there is no real reason, except i have a lot of drama with 2 particular women, but, not enough to be suicidal, its wierd. There not the problem, there a problem. a love 1, who's taken, and lust for another. Anyways, what can I do? I have been recommended for BP disorder, is that the case? Does anyone think it might go away?

Answer 1

i went to your yahoo answers profile, and let me tell you, i've seen your questions and to me, your questions are about love and finding love.

one thing you have to know is that love consumes you, positively or negatively. you should also know that love is everlasting, whether it's family, girlfriend, friends, hobbies, and etc.

about the suicidal thinking part.......don't act on it. the human brain is part of your imaginative thinking. sometimes you think of things that you don't want to come true. hell, i've had suicidal thoughts ever since middle school, but i'm moving on.

here is my quote: "suiciders are people who never forgets the past, hates the present, and does not want to see the future."

only you could change your future. about these women, there are millions of them. and if it's a friend or family member, try to talk out or sort your problems. listen to her point of view also. if you can't, try to talk with someone else.
you can talk to me, just add me on your contacts.

Answer 2

I am not a psychologist or psychiatrist, but it seems to me that the mere fact that you are asking this is a good sign.... you're asking for help. And there are bound to be a lot of people who can help if you give them the chance.

Now, as for the women, it's not something worth harming yourself over (and conversely, ladies, no problem with guys is worth harming yourself over either).

I would suggest that you see if you can arrange a consultation with a trained psychologist or counsellor. They might be able to help you uncover the true reason you are having these feelings, and once you do that, you can start to fix the problem.

Just always remember... life is worth living. Tell yourself that every morning when you wake up. Think of something or someone that makes you happy. Then remind yourself that they make you happy because you are alive. Go out and take a walk somewhere, like a park (in a safe area), stop and smell the fresh air, hear the birds, look at the trees, and realize that this world is alive, and you are part of it.

Also, try and do at least one selfless thing for another person each and every day. It doesn't have to be big, just something. Don't do it expecting a reward, or praise, or even acknowledgement Do it because it is good. It feels good. It makes a difference... which means that YOU make a difference. When you do this, your life is worth living.

Hope this helps. I didn't mean to ramble on, but those words come from me. If this helps you, or anyone else, then I have done my selfless act for today.

- Mike

Answer 3

Well the most important thing you have said so far is "help" You understand you need some. You should immediately seek some kind of counseling, either through a therapist, or find cheaper alternatives such as the United Way. I've always said suicide is a permanant solution to a temporary problem.

Your life is more valuable than that. Dont destroy it and the lives of those that love you over some problems that might not be that bad in the long run. Talk to your friends, family and maybe a spiritual leader if you belive in that.

I think your on the right path already considering you recognize there is a problem. Suicide is NOT the answer, please always remember that!

Goodluck

Answer 4

i have depression, its hard to deal with. I'm in the middle of finding out if i am bipolar or borderline personality. in either case seeing a therapist helps a lot. sometimes just talking to someone on a regular basis makes all the difference. sometimes a person needs meds to balance it out. try taking st johns wart for the depression. i did and its helped a lot so far. i don't have the suicidal thoughts anymore. learning to understand your illness goes a long way. read up on it on the net, find a support system, DON'T STRESS OUT. that make sit worse. do something fun that has nothing do with either girl. it might help. if u need to chat. look me up on yahoo.

Answer 5

You are probably caught up in a situation that is just dragging you deeper and deeper into a depressing state.

I'd recommend putting it on the back burner for now, put on your iPod and go for a walk and clear your mind of any negative thoughts that might be going through your head! Take a hot bath, that also helps as well.

You need to get rid of the negative things in your life, it's not worth it trust me! Surround yourself with more positive things!

Time heals all wounds! I promise!

Answer 6

Your condition requires expert diagnosis, since Borderline Personality Disorder (see the foot of page 1 at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris ) and Bipolar Disorder (read all of page 2: cont. page 5: see suicidal thoughts, as well ) are often misdiagnosed, so see your doctor, and ask for a referral. It appears to be BPD. If you leave one for the other, you may well leave the other for someone new: ask your therapist about this tendency.

Answer 7

I first drove myself to the Hospital when my thoughts turned suicidal, then I started to get the help I needed.
I utilized both inpatient, then outpatient partial hospitalization.
Later, hooking up with a wonderful psychiatrist, a gifted counselor, and a good depression support group,
has helped me immensely.
I wish you the best in your healing and recovery.

Answer 8

have u been having depression isues (if so, consider an anti depressent) we all go through some sort of suicidal phase no matter if its a second or two years. just dont let anything serious get to yer head. i had a suicide attempt and realized it was overwhelming stress, anxiety, and depression.

Answer 9

Well from personal experience, I have seen people hurt themselves before and I sent them to the hospital. That was the best move for them that they have had in a long time. They are bi polar too. You can volunteer yourself into a mental health facility and they will be more than happy to help you. Or see somebody who has a degree in some kind of human services. Maybe a psychiatrist could help. You probably need to be on some type of antidepressants too. Just always remember, there are people that love you and Jesus loves you. God didnt give you life to waste, he wants you to spend it happy. You will be happy someday, just hang in there.

Answer 10

suicide is not the answer to girl problems...lust is something that plagues all young men, so that is normal. go to a clinic and talk to someone...killing yourself over drama leaves you dead and the people you are trying to punish, going on with their lives and not giving you another thought!