Ok i have a "friend" who is a girl, she is sick she said that her throat huts when she swallows, now tomorrow morning she will be alone, should i go to her house, we both like eachther and are coming out of very very long relationships, but were taking our time, so should i just go tomorrow without her knowing and maybe bring a movie, or ne thing for her throat like a drink or medicine what should i do for her, to make her feel better, whats the right thing to do..?
2007-06-10 16:50:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that sounds great
dont tell her that u r going.
suprise her.
bring a movie spend time together and cuddle with her on the couch
make her tea or something 4 her throat
sounds GREAt
2007-06-10 16:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Consti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. You should call her first and let her know that you care and you're thinking about her. Let her know that you are sorry she's sick and ask if there is anything you can do. Based on her reply, take it from there. I wouldn't just go showing up at her house though. That could be taken as you trying to take advantage of her. Good luck!
2007-06-10 23:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by wickywickyrn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound nice and although what you suggest can be real nice it can also go the wrong way too.
Depends how comfortable she feels about surprise visits from a male when she is not at her best or she could feel angry.
I would suggest you ask her over talk on the phone, suggest what you would like to do and ask if it is ok if you drop in to do that. If she insists for you not to , I would follow here wishes and tell her if you could call back to check on her.
2007-06-11 00:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mo_Az7>Vs/ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her some tissue, some vanilla mint Listerine and some sore throat lozenges...and take the movies also...make it a variety so she'll be sure to find something to watch...she might like just to have a friend to hang out with when she isn't feeling well...
2007-06-10 23:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well call her ahead of time like 10 min. before and tell her that you are coming over to make her feel better.bring her something to drink *beware* no soft drinks they burn! make sure you dont stay to long though she might want to be alone since shes sick so a movie isnt the best idea.
2007-06-11 00:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to visit in hopes of getting laid, stay home.
Either be a real friend and take tea and sympathy, or just be honest and stay away until she feels better, and then try for a roll in the sack.
Doc
2007-06-10 23:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring her whatever her favorite hot drink is, box of tissues, cough drops, teddy bear, and a movie or book whatever she likes.
2007-06-10 23:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by xxGlamROCK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pop over with some chicken noodle soup /icecream /lil stuffed animal and a movie--be ready for the I don't want company line--but it is a great gesture to show you care ---good luck
2007-06-10 23:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by karlyk721 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing that counts is that she knows that you bother to take care of her, so show you do.
2007-06-10 23:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by kevin p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. yes. yes.
Bring her chicken soup. She will be so happy that you care about her being sick.
2007-06-10 23:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋