im ashamed of my body?

Question

hello there pplz.. well im ashamed that i have like (from what ppl tell me0 a butt..my mom tells me that all the guys like a gril wih a butt.. and im like nooooooo!!! (and yes i am black but with alot of multiracial backgrounds) and 5"1 and about 143 pounds..anyways...i just dnt like having a butt and attracting attention..and i dnt have the boobs 2 go with them eirther...ima 36 1/2 b-cup.... and it seems like i attract more ppl in my own race than from othr races(not that its nothing wrong with that0 i just prefer some else from a diff ethnic background 2 atleast approach me..in a descent way...but i still dnt like the fact that i have a butt :(

ps.im in a size 10-13 jeans)

Answer 1

one comes with life you can either use it or abuse it ,its your's do what you want with it. i was alway told that it's what you do in life that matters .

Answer 2

Well there is no need to be ashamed of your body. Men do tend to like a woman with a bit of "junk in the trunk" but if you are uncomfortable with your body shape you might want to consider losing some weight and joining a Gym to do some circuit training to resculpt yourself. In all likelihood you should weigh less then you do if you are carrying excess weight in your butt.

Generally speaking, a well proportioned woman will have hips and chest that are within 1 - 2 inches of each other in size. For example, a 36 in chest will have a 36 - 38 inch hips with about a 26 - 28 inch waist.

Answer 3

I would loove to have a bigger butt. Embrace it!! I'm a white girl with hardly any curves at all, I WISH I had a little Puerto Rican or something in me to give me a nice figure. haha

Anyways, lots of white guys love big butts. Maybe they're just nervous or whatever, I don't know. Guys are sort of weird in general but hey, you'll find someone cool who likes you for more than your body and hopefully you'll learn to love yourself the way you are. Good luck!

Answer 4

I read that black people are usually much more proud of their body type than white women. The survey said that 70% of black women are happy with their body type, while only 30% of white women are happy. It was a major difference between the races. You should always try and be your best, but always be proud of what you have. Confidence and smiles will make you more attractive for any race.

Answer 5

You have to like yourself and everything about u (including the booty), before you can expect anyone else to like you, regardless of what race they are. Confidence is most attractive thing about a person.

But seriously girl, look at it as a blessing!! i am half black & i have no booty :( too much is better than none at all. the back of my jeans always look baggy and loose cuz i do not fill them in but i have accepted that and you should accept and love your assets as well :)

Answer 6

If you're worried about guys, every guy is different. I have a rather larger butt (I won't say a black girl's butt) for being a white girl and my italian boyfriend absolutely loves it, he could care less about my smaller boobs (which are smaller than yours). So work it to your advantage and accept that every guy is different about what they love on a woman's body.

Answer 7

the onmly way to lose your bum is to excersie and lose weigth all around. i have a big butt on a skinny body so at least you are more peroportioned. i always accepted my bigger butt cus it looks good to have curves but then i gained 30 pounds and didnt like my body or my butt. the thing is, i liekd the bigger bum, just not too big, so excerise and eat healthy and you will become curvy and beautiful and in shape and healthy looking.

Answer 8

there's nothing wrong with your body,let ppl love you for who you are not what your and your big butt those are love handles.so be yourself and let other people worry about their ownself.i'm indian and i have a big butt but i don't let it bother me.hold your head up and be proud,someone will come along in your life and appreciate you for who you are,not what you try to be.so be happy with your life and love handles.

Answer 9

Well it seems you have insecurity issues, if you don't like something about your self than change your way of thinking so you can change the way you look, by exercising, eating etc. you have to love the way you look girl. keep me posted smooches!

Answer 10

love urself.ur body is what makes u unique.there is nothing wrong with being your size,it is way better than being anorexic and starving yourself.like i said b4,you have to love yourself.

Answer 11

you want to be a walking ironing board?
be grateful you have a body
people are so much more self concious than you are
its not your fault your a girl
who cares?
people would die for your shape