everytime i get in trouble, i get hit.. like bad.. my hair gets pulled i get punched in the head, and soo on. i have other sisters and 1 brother who get the same thing. my brother is mentally retared and he gets it real bad. my mom doesnt do anything about it. and im just sooo sick of it. im 14 and my sisters are younger then me accept one she is 16. i was just wonderin if i can go talk to the cops with out any evidence? i sure my sisters will talk to them too. like be witnesses. and if i can, what will happen to him? will he get put in jail? and for how long??? and can i get a restraining order agianst him?
2007-06-10 10:18:29 · 13 answers · asked by nicoleaase 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
callt he cops
2007-06-10 10:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Amira M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't forbid your soon-to-be husband from having his son in his house. So if he won't see that his son has VERY skewed boundaries and get him help, then you shouldn't be marrying him. And his son does have very skewed boundaries. He should know, at 5 years old, that it's inappropriate to touch other peoples' private areas. He's been seeing things or experiencing things that he shouldn't be seeing or experiencing and that's a big worry. If your fiance doesn't come to his senses, i would break things off and ask him to leave. Until then, don't leave the 5 year old alone with your daughter. There's a big difference between curiosity and laying on top of a one year old little girl. This isn't natural curiosity...this is a cause for concern.
2016-05-17 03:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by danna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in school go tell your school counselor, school nurse, or teacher. They know what to do for you.
If you are out of school for the summer go to the police. You don't have to have bruises or marks to tell someone. But it is important for you to call and tell someone. The family court people or some agency that represents your community will investigate it and help you. The next time it is happening call 911. Your step-father does not have a right to hurt you like that nor does any other adult.
If the authorities find out that he is hitting you they will most likely give your mother the opportunity to put him out of the house and protect you or see if another family member can let you live with them. If your mother is being hit there are special houses you all can go to immediately and they will help keep you safe and help you start a better family life.
2007-06-10 10:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by raven754 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is bad enough he is beating on you kids who can speak up for yourselves but when he is beating uo a mentally challenged child who can't is really abuse in the worst form.Yes this creep will do jail time that is if their is visable bruising on any of you children.Your mother should do it right along with the creep for lettong this happen.The only way I believe you can get a restraining order is if your mother kicks him out .Don't you have a counsier or a teacher you can confide in they should be able to help you kids find a safe haven as this guy is dangerous and no one to take lightly.Get help ASAP even if it means calling 911 right now just do it for all your welfare.
2007-06-10 10:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by JackieG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can go to the cops. Your evidence will be your witnesses. In this case, siblings. Your evidence will also be the marks left on you guys. All of you go together, even your brother. Yes, he'll probably go to jail, and you may get put in foster homes for a time, but trust me, that'll be a good thing. Your mom can get help, and if she doesn't want to leave your stepdad, oh well. But you will be doing what's best for all of you, so good luck. Don't be afraid. They sometimes put siblings together, or near each other.
2007-06-10 10:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby you really need to talk with your school principle or someone who is not in your home to get some type of help for you and your siblings. If you have to call the police yourself and tell them you don't feel safe in your home and that your step dad is beating you and your siblings... Don't be afraid, because if he keeps being allowed to do this someone will wind up hurt badly or even worse...if you look in the phone book under the government section (usually the blue pages or its the section in the front of the phone book) find child abuse hotline...call them and they will get you the help you seek...I am really sorry that you are getting treated so badly, darling you have the power to stop this guy....wish you well...
2007-06-10 10:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun. you really need to talk to the cops. the cops keep things that they hear confidential if you want them to. your stepdad doesn't need to be doing that to you. and espically your brother. your brother probabally doesn't know what he is doing wrong.... yes seriously go and tell the cops. or go and tell a friend to go tell the cops if you don't want to. if you do just a heads up social services will be in it and there will be a lot of stuff going on and your dad will probablly be put in jail and stuff. but just hold on and seriously TELL SOMEONE W/ AUTHORITY!!!
2007-06-10 11:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by layla. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, tell your teachers at school, and let them notice the police department. If, they prove it he will go to jail, and also your mother may be in trouble, for not trying to protect you and you sister and brother.
2007-06-10 10:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please-- it is against the law to abuse people like that, he is a criminal, he is commiting a crime. Especially children! your poor brother is retarded! go to the police now, do it today-that bully has no right whatsoever to hit you like that, please please protect your brother and your selves. yes he will end up in jail, yes the court can protect you from him, call social services for a restraining order. Your poor brother will end up really hurt permanently someday and he may lash out and get in trouble himself. Boys usually get it worse.
2007-06-10 10:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for God's sake,go to the police or call the Dept. of Human Services asap!!!None of you needs to be in that environment and your mom is an accomplice watching it happen to you!Don't worry about the stepdad at this time-just get out!!!
2007-06-10 10:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by bratt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋