okay i have long dark brown hair,i have hazelbrown eyes,im not fat and im long,i have a bellyring,i dont have any pimpels or sprouts on my face ,i am very outgoing,i love animals,i love pizza and dvds .i love hanging with friends,im a bit naughty and well i love to have fun and try new things im always in a good mood and make the best of things..o and im 15 turning 16.....the girls in my class say that im a stupid fashion girky and i dont fit with them caus i thin and girly and never know anything smart to say
2007-06-10 09:57:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look this is realy important to me why do i have to be a weird girl i know this may soun dum but im friend with girls we are like the girls in our school everybody knows us and i just want to change i dont want to be a dum fashion diva everybody always think i have no feelings but i do i want someone to take me up serously
2007-06-10 10:07:27 · update #1
okay pleas dont give me these ignorant answers like you think way to muck of your self cause i dont i just want to know why girls are so mean to me and guys are so kind to me???? im i realyy just all that looks and no brain??????? :-[
2007-06-10 10:15:46 · update #2
oh my god would somebody just help me im freaking out here im not so stupid am i?? what the hell this one girl in my class annalie text me that im ugly
2007-06-10 10:21:35 · update #3
keep being who you are and the right people will come around, its not easy or fair at times but its your life and no one elses.
2007-06-10 10:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always get what you think you deserve. You are attracting jerks because you genuinely feel (on a subconscious level) that you don't deserve a nice guy.
Second, you place an excessive amount of important on your physical appearance and in your own words "never know anything smart to say". Unfortunately, people like yourself tend to attract more shallow people--people who, more often than not, end up acting like jerks.
That said, the best way to end this dilemma is to change yourself. Do some volunteer work (you like animals so maybe p/t work at an animal shelter). Befriend a lonely person outside your circle. Seek out a hobby that you always wanted to pursue. Join a youth group, etc. Get the picture? Good luck.
2007-06-10 17:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is because you let these guys do those things to you. You have to set standards for yourself, what your likes and dislikes are in a guy, don't be so open. Let them figure out who you really are. Thats one of the fun parts in a relationship! Getting to know each other. it seems like you tell the guy who and what your about before you even start. Let the guy like you for who you are. and find out more about you.
and vice versa. Its good to be open, but not fully open unless you and your other is fully commited to each other.
2007-06-10 17:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always get what you allow. Remember you are CHOOSING a person to come into your life. Soooo your choices are poor and you have paid the price for that yet you haven't learned the lesson. Until you do, you will repeat your mistake.
2007-06-10 17:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you start by feeling good about yourself, you don't... if you did you wouldn't keep picking out guys to be with that use you... having the upper most respect for yourself does help, it then makes you think twice about what you really want for yourself from a guy and it helps you spot losers coming your way...
2007-06-10 17:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many new people do you meet each day?
What is it about the people that attracts them to you?
Do you have any standards whatsoever on the person?
Wrong Answers:
No. I'm not sure. No.
2007-06-10 17:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probably just pick the same type of bbiys over and over again
sit dowwn tand think what they all have in common and next time keep your eyes open for them and stay away
try a different type of guy
2007-06-10 17:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by jersey_689 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect from 15-16 year old guys...
2007-06-10 17:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are mean because they are jelouse i have preatty friends and it is harder to be out wiht them some times i feel like beeing mean 2 them but i dont but thats prob y and guys well your prob hot so thats prob y no offence...
2007-06-10 18:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships begin with yourself. Learn to like yourself, to be honest with yourself, to love, honor and respect yourself and to accept yourself without judgement. If you can learn this, to accept yourself without judgement, then you can accept others and your choices of companions will honor you.
2007-06-10 17:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋