help me!!!?

Question

What do I do when I think I'm going to kill my self??? All because my famly hates me and loves my brother... Like when I turned 12 we didn't have any money for me but 4 munths latter same situwation but no we go on a $350 camping trip for him!! And I have tried to tell my parents what they are doing but they wont listen...Plz help what do I do????

I'm 12 right now

and my parens whont let me see a consular. i asked them and they said well you can talk to us so i said no!!!! you never listen...then my brother came up and stole them from me...

Answer 1

that's scary, you need to sit back and think. say is there people that love me, freinds? family? jesus? Jesus definatly catres about you, even if you feel nobody else does. I'm 14! 14 years old and i'm not pasturing you but listen. God's son died, went through death with nothing he did wrong only and only because he loved you. God loved you so much he sent his son, his only son to die so that yoou could be saved. even if nobody (you feel) loves you, he does, and always will. believe me, cause even if i'm lieing (which i'm not) it'd be better to trust him and believe he' there for you then kill yourself. if you want a freind you can e-mail me at [e-mail], i'm here for ya!

Answer 2

I would be able to answer this question better if i knew how old you are NOW. If you have ever seen a counselor as a child in school. Maybe you need to look for one to help you to explain this stuff to your parents. Some times they don't listen to us because they think it is just kids being jealous of each other. Some times it takes an adult to let them know the damage they are doing to you when you are younger. And to have you and them in the same room when you tell them how much they have hurt you by not giving to each of you equally. It may cost you some money but, at least they will understand and really know how much they have hurt you. Talking to your parents isn't a easy job when they don't have they ears open. You also need to think of it has they don't listen because they were hoping you hadn't noticed the special treatment that your brother was and is still getting. I hope this can help and I wish you luck. I understand because I was in the same spot the only difference was I had a sister. GOOD LUCK

Answer 3

Try to think positive! I know it is hard when you feel unloved. I do not think you are loved less. Depending on the situation you are in. The camping trip you said was for your brother- right- are you sure it wasn't a family trip, because it sounds like everyone went. When you turned 12 what were you asking for? Maybe your parents had a good reason to say no. I know it sounds unfair and it sounds like you are competing for more love and affection from your parents. I do hope your parents don't show partiality between their children, its not right EVER!!
Killing your self will not get you any where but dead. You think your hurt will be gone but the hurt will be passed on to the ones who love you dearly. You still have a wonderful life ahead of you. Its important to finish school, go to collage if thats what you want, meeting the right guy who will fill your world with love and happiness and wonderful children. You might think it will take an eternity to get older but it don't, once you are an adult you will wish you were a kid again. When you graduate from school thats when the responsibilities start but you will be strong enough to handle them. Being a child is a tough job but you won't be a child forever. Just be strong and try to handle things in a positive way. P.S. If you want to talk just email me. (click on my picture)

Answer 4

Omg girl plz do not kill your self plz hell no dont do that . I have the same situation i am the middle child so i get ripped off and screwed all the time and my sister the youngest ( 7 i am 12 just like u ) . She gets spoiled so much and i get in trouble for all the things she does and she gets me in trouble . I know i think about what if i die like right now how would they feel now , but now i dont . everything will get better i totally promise u and if it doesnt just dont think about it im sure that your parentes love u . just killing your self is not a option. Plz think it over

Answer 5

If your weak and you have no aspiration for life and how valuable it is, then your dumb. If you kill yourself you'll only bestow even more misery amongst your friends and family.

As for your family sounds like it's horrible. I can't help you or your family, but I can try to say a few methods that might work. First, lose the bad attitude it will only make things worse. Second, be lucky they still feed you and provide shelter over you otherwise you would be on the street and hungry.

What they did is not fair, but don't let that take the best of you.

Answer 6

Get HELP! There are suicide hotlines in every state. You need to be talking with someone outside the family who is a professional and can help deal with these things. I went through suicidal depression as a teen too. Been there, done that. I didn't get help and wound up in a hospital for a week. One thing my doctor told me I will share with you. He asked me, what will it matter in ten years? Think about that. In ten years you will be on your own living an entirely different life with you at the wheel, deciding where you go and what you do. But look up suicide hotlines in your area and when you start thinking about it, call and tell someone. Life is too short as it is, don't make it shorter...

Answer 7

Dont, dont dont.... that would be such a waste. You are obviously in a bad situation, but it wont be long before things change. Try not to 'tell' your parents, ask them to explain instead. If they are good they will have a genuine reason, I am a parent and there have been times when I couldnt get what I really wanted to for one of my kids, but then times and money change. It may come across as unfair, but its life in a family.
Remember, this is not your whole life, you have so much more in front of you.
Please find someone to talk to...

Answer 8

I have the same problem. You and i are twins from another mother lol. Well first of all, i recommend going to talk to a counsenlor. It's their job, they can help you with any problem that you have. Explain it to them. i feel for you. It is a horrible feeling to go through. I really think you should talk to a counselor, i mean they are paid to listen to you, they have to listen and help you. I say do that or talk to a close family member like a grandparent or aunt or cousin. Best of luck to you! when you find out why they do it, let me know!

Answer 9

First thing don't kill yourself its not an answer EVER i don't want to bring religion it to this but i believe you don't go to heaven if you kill yourself. That just an opinion not a fact you will be 18 soon then you can make your own choices. perhaps when you are 16 you could get a working permit and work after school part time so that you can but things that you want and that you need.

Answer 10

Think about it what would killing yourself accomplish? You just need to make your parents aware you feel left out or forgotten. Sit them down look them straight in the eye and say "Why are you ignoring me???" they may not realize it. Are you an independant girl? It could be they think you don't want the attention or anything from them. Let them know you need them and love them I bet things will change.