my gf is having someone elses baby and getting paid a lot of money. the embyo was the intended mother's egg and her husband. a doctor implanted it in my gf and now she is pregged with their child. I don't mind because she has insured that if she has post pardon the other lady in the contract has to pay for her therapy whatever it may be.
2007-06-10 06:33:23 · 11 answers · asked by mousehth72 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I'd love to be a surrogate mother because it's challenging both your body and mind. I think it'll be very hard for someone to do that because to me when you're pregnant, you feel bonded with the baby eventhough it's not yours. I think it'll be very hard to let the baby goes after birth and I think your girlfriend has done the biggest sacrifice for the others and may god blesses her. Good luck with both
2007-06-10 06:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by poohbearprince 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, from personal experience I can say no. I don't see anything wrong with it, I just think it would be hard to carry it (mine or not) and then give it up.
My husband's niece and her husband (married on the same day as me and my husband) offered me a large amount of money to be a surrogate mother for them. I hated to turn her down because I know she loves children and wanted her own, but I just knew I couldn't do it. They have been married for 13 years and still have no children. I am now 5 months pregnant with my third. I do really feel for them, and hoped by now something would have worked for them. She has even been through all the fertility stuff and has had no luck.
So, in MY opinion it would be a hard thing to do!
2007-06-10 10:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Hope P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Originally, I thought that maybe I could do it (if necessary) for someone who I am very close, with but now that I have had a baby I see the situation very differently. After having the baby grow inside me for 9 months, and feeling it all the time, I think that regardless of the genetic material a strong bond would develop, and it would feel just like giving my own baby up for adoption.
So no, I don't think that I could do it. I think that for anyone in this situation, the contract should also stipulate that they have a right to forfeit payment and keep the baby if they feel that they can't give it up after the birth.
2007-06-10 06:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by baby_savvy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ive thought about it but i dont think i could do it really and if i ever did it would be after ive had children for my self lol i mean think about it shes growing a human being ! that alone makes a connection between her and the baby weather the egg was hers or not so no i probably wouldn't be able to do it
i wish her the best of luck with the whole surrogate thing!
2007-06-10 06:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by ~♥~Nay~♥~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I could do it. If I was carrying around a child for 9 months, I don't think I could give it up even though it wasn't my biological child. I would just have too much of a connection with the child after giving birth that I would probably go through depression afterwards.
2007-06-10 07:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was in excellent health and was doing it for a family member or great friend, I could. It's a great opportunity for people who may not be able to have a child otherwise.
2007-06-10 06:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to do it but I really dont enjoy pregnancy that much lol she must be a very strong person to be able to do it and she is very lucky to have someone as supportive as you are.
Good luck to you both
2007-06-10 06:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by angelcakes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No cause giving birth wrecks you down there. Makes you loose. I know!
2007-06-10 07:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No thankyou very much. I admire those who can. But not me.
2007-06-10 07:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but no it's not for me
2007-06-10 07:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋