How do I defeat my sexual feelings?

Question

Its really hard.

I want to live without sex.

Sex is wast my time and money.

Answer 1

its all illusion that it just feel you great when you are dipped into but after you done you might not even realise what happen i mean things before sex ,its like when you feel hungry lot you get weaird to eat food whatever you find but after you eat you dont ever realise what did i do before .

so its just like a illusion you dont get you get weaird if you have partner and then you do some sinfull interaction to fullfill that need but it has to happen at perfect time and at perfect desire .

you dont want to be an animal that need sex like everyday and this a kind of obestecal that god has put in our way to see how would you handle it , and we should handle in god way. dont wast your life doing this thing i had a same thing but i realise its an animal life that we are living so i realise the life that shree RAM had lived .

Answer 2

You're trying to be funny, aren't you? "It's really hard," indeed.

If I'm in error and you are serious, you should know, and no doubt you already do, that sex and desire are parts of the human makeup, sir, as natural and normal as breathing, as walking, talking, thinking. Unless your sexual feelings are directed at children, or you are fixed on activities that do not embrace mutual consent, do not attempt to separate sexual feelings from your life. You would be asking for pain or even a breakdown.

Meanwhile, it is entirely possible, or even probable, that what you need to "defeat" are your locker room attempts to be, er, cute. You fail.

Answer 3

Its really hard.... why did you pick this particular word/phrase?? Clearly even as you start the war with your sexual feelings you are losing ground. What is the its?
If you are hardcore religious get a nice girl who is kind of wild and get married. Then you let the beast out occasionally at night and feel much better the next day.

just a hint the one just above me is not a good match for you. Her answer indicates a completely absent libido. You need a girl with the same level of interest in sex as you.

Answer 4

Yes, it is really hard. You are trying to defeat one of the deepest drives mankind has..
However, it can be done. There are people who have become celebate, in order to dedicate their lives to God. They do this through much prayer and fasting.
Don't think for a second that they are no longer tempted by sex. As has been seen, too many Catholic priests, who are forbidden to marry and must be celebate, have given in to terrible temptations, giving Catholocism, with apologies to many fine Catholics in this forum, a black eye. Celebacy MUST be voluntary, it cannot be forced. YOU must decide for yourself that this is something YOU want, for whatever reasons.

And, Hun...sorry, but yes, sex does take up time...and women are expensive.
Tis the nature of the beast...
;-D

Answer 5

How about if you take all that energy and use it for others instead of personal pleasure? Do volunteer work. Get involved in more things that take up your time and keep you busy doing good and growing as a person in other areas.

There is so much more to life.

If you are tempted to view porn, have a trusted family member or friend set up your computer settings so that they are the only one with access to settings.

Answer 6

I know this is the religion and spiridfige blah blah blah but don't look to god for help with this because look how well priest are holding back their sexual frustation. Anyway, just think of something that is a complete turn off like your mom or 2nd grade teacher whos mustache would twitch anytime she yelled at you. Not sure why you would want to hold it back but good luck, Bud.

Answer 7

you are able to no longer it is human nature. almost each little thing on earth has intercourse to reproduce, so having sexual emotions are area of existence. Religions and societies attempt to make human beings sense in charge approximately it while it is a few thing known and organic that we will no longer administration. in basic terms be risk-free and be careful and start up off at an suited age and determine you're on the final point of adulthood.

Answer 8

Dear,

You need to elaborate your Question, if your Sexual feelings are towards your legal wife it is OK, again might be she is not in a position due to her illness, monthly courses, delivery etc. then you need to restrain yourself.

If your sexual desires are unlawful and illegal to commit a sin again you need to subside it.

Now the question; How to defeat it or subside it. The answer was given by Holy Prophet peace be on him 1400 years ago.

Men and women; it is better for you to get married, so as to save yourself from committing a Sin. If your financial position is such that you cannot maintain a family, then Keep Fasting to subdue your sexual desires.

If you keep fast and instill the fear of God in you, God willing you will be saved from any harm resulting from your sexual desires.

Answer 9

If a person is single, or, if a married person is having difficulties with lust for another other than their spouse, we cannot handle them on our own, so, rebuke satan, tell him you are a child of God, covered by the blood of Jesus and he cannot have any part of you, then, hand it over to God and Jesus, and thank them for relieving you of the burden.

God Bless! :)

* You want to live WITHOUT sex? FOREVER? Oh my, have to give you credit for having more of a goal than anyone else I know, lol
Have you asked God about this first before making such a decision?
If you are entering into a ministry that asks this of you, then, God will help you.
God be with you :)

Answer 10

Sex wastes your money....so are you in the habit of buying sex? Sex is a part of life, no matter what religion you are in.