but thats not my biggest worry My biggest worry is that I won't be a suitable or good if you will mother How do I decide what to talk about and how to approach different things with my child in life?Any advice..
2007-06-10 04:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by devotion 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You know what? Considering how messed up some kids are, if you're sane and smart enough to worry about this sort of stuff, I'm sure both you and your child will be fine. You'll figure out what to do with him/her as you go along. Just talk and listen to your child often, and you will have a good idea what sort of information they're ready for.
If you are pregnant, people will notice sometime in the next few months. Some may guess but say nothing - as the old joke goes "Never ask a woman if she's pregnant unless they're wheeling her into the delivery room".
2007-06-10 04:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was pregnant at 20 and had many worries, now 24 and preg with #2 I still worry. I found that my local hospital had many resources and parent education information for me. Being a single mom was hard but well worth it. I found a lot of support from my friends and later from my family. With my daughter- now 3 1/2 yrs old I've found that I had to roll with the punches and make her life as good as I could, she's healthy, bright and happy. Thats all that matters- and if you ever feel like you're on the bottom just realize the only other option is to go up. Things will turn around and the sun will shine : ) Good luck
2007-06-10 12:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by JADIEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you find out that you are pregnant all the parenting worries begin. But the best thing is as soon as you are holding that baby in your arms it all makes sense and you just learn it as you go. Don't worry because a lot of it does come natural, if not you can learn. There are so many great resources now to find answers to things. Congratulations!!! I was 18 when I found I was pregnant with my first baby. I had only graduated high school a few months prior and we were scared. But it all worked out and I wouldn't change a thing if I could.
2007-06-10 11:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Megs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're worried about those issues is what will make you a good mommy. Kids are the best things that can come into your life. You'll end up doing things that you thought you didn't know how to do. Just remember to have a LOT of patience and I believe you can never spoil or kiss and hug your baby too much.
2007-06-10 12:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by laulinian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am your age too and I have a daughter. It will all come naturally. You will know in that moment the right thing to say or do. Just go with the flow. From the moment they are born that is just what you have to do. They become your life and you will just know...trust yourself.
2007-06-10 11:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by mommy of an angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it comes naturally!! you will do just fine! no need to worry about the future, you just need to take care of that little bun in the oven right now!
2007-06-10 11:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very immature, maybe you should consider adoption.
2007-06-10 11:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine_rae 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋