too much for son?

Question

do you think its to much to allow my 13 year old son to have provacative posters of britney spears and christina aguilera on his wall?should i worry hes doing more than looking at them?

Answer 1

At 13, there is a natural interest in girls. I would say as a parent, allowing him to have naked pictures is a bit much but provacative posters are natural at this age. And if he is doing more than looking, who cares? If he was doing more than looking at his girlfriend, thats what Id be concerned about.

Answer 2

If you have to ask a group of stranger the answer, think that you already know what the answer is, but just hoping that others will reaffirm and give you a thumbs up to make you feel better about a choice you have already made.

Too late to revoke them as by allowing him to have them as you have already given him persmission to view women as sex objects. Only way to try to counteract it is to take him to cool zoos, science, art or car museums or something else he has a huge interest in and if he finds another poster he is interested in, buy those cool posters on the condition that if he gets them, one of Britney or Christina have to come down.

Answer 3

This is normal for a teenager, however, if you're really concerned then do NOT buy them for him!!!
Or, would you rather he have posters of male strippers.............
these I would be concerned about, especially in a boy's room.

Answer 4

he is a teenager! Let him have the posters. Don't worry about it. He's gonna do what he's gonna do - it is all part of growing up.

Answer 5

It's part of growing up. If you don't allow him to express himself he could hate you for it. He needs to be able to express himself. He's growing up. It's hard to let them grow up.

Answer 6

don't worry it is normal

Answer 7

boys will be boys...